Post Date December, 02 2023
Love can occur in any place, environment, or atmosphere. Before entering society, school was the cradle and birthplace of love. After entering society, there was a taste of love everywhere in the world, and the office naturally did not deviate from this category. As a result, office romances emerged. But is it advisable to have love in this environment, as the office is not like school? Or is it reasonable?
Office romances are not popular
The man you are interested in has a handsome appearance and, in addition to being a dedicated and sociable worker, also has a considerable income. You can't help but understand all of this because you work with him. But like everyone else, you have heard the old saying 'rabbits don't eat grass by the nest'. If you fall in love with an office colleague, it's not like falling in love with your classmates. The teacher may not care how you fall in love, but the boss may immediately ask you to 'go home and talk slowly'. The impact should not be taken lightly.
Although many companies do not explicitly prohibit office romances, and some even encourage unmarried employees to get married, that does not mean that these employers allow employees to flirt and act like 'you're not me' in the office!
Why do men and women who work together knowingly commit crimes
However, perhaps it wouldn't be called love if it could prevent blockages! Sometimes, despite all the bad things being said, there are still people willing to put all their eggs in love, and surprisingly, these women are not in the minority. According to a recent survey conducted by the American Management Association, one in three women admits to having an office romance. Why do these office workers knowingly commit crimes?
An American psychotherapist explains, "Love can happen everywhere. Considering that women now invest more time in their work and value their careers more, there is no doubt that the workplace naturally becomes a place for women to meet the right person
Office romance turns into underground romance
In recent years, many employers have also succumbed to the trend of office romance, admitting that it cannot be avoided. According to a recent survey conducted by the American Society of Human Resources Management, 70% of employers have allowed and accepted relationships between employees from different units within the company, with only 1.5% of very few still persistently opposing it.
A major trading company employee said: A few years ago, if an employee in our company was found to have an office romance, the supervisor would have made it clear that one of them was walking. However, later on, the boss probably realized that this was a trend! In addition, if this employee's work performance was really good, wouldn't it be a loss for the company? Therefore, unless it was a relationship between a supervisor or subordinate, or involving troubles such as extramarital affairs, they should not have taken too much care of it
Office romances are not harmful but beneficial
In fact, office romances may not necessarily be harmful without any benefits. Many work partners turn into lovers, and work efficiency will also greatly improve. For example, news anchors such as Li Tao and Li Yanqiu, musicians Wei Lefu and Ye Luna, as well as US President Clinton and First Lady Hillary, these examples prove that combining intimate relationships with work can never create a strong win-win situation.
Office romance can be discussed separately
It has to be admitted that men and women who work together in the same office will get to know each other better, their emotions will also be more harmonious, and they will be able to discover whether the other person is suitable for them. If you really love each other, make it a goal to promote each other's work. If the environment does not allow it, the best approach is to "separate" the discussion. If one party voluntarily launches the company and seeks another way out, the relationship between the two can continue without causing too much impact.
