Before that, our sex life has always been very regular. The sudden interruption of sex twice a week is undoubtedly a fatal blow to me. In my opinion, he must be too busy in business and snub me. When he is free, he will ask me. Half a month later, my husband still went out early and returned late. After coming back to take a bath, he fell asleep. I finally couldn't help but ask for sex. I know he didn't sleep, but he was lying on the bed like a dead fish. Suddenly, I couldn't control my anger and shouted at him, "Don't you want me? Don't I really have any charm?" He said nothing. I was even more angry. I picked up the pillow and threw it at him. "Throw it away, I'm going to sleep." The more he looked like this, the more angry I was. Under my repeated questioning, he actually said that he fell in love with a foot-washing sister and had no feeling for me.
I cried that night. I am a very vulnerable person. I cry when I encounter small problems, let alone when my husband has an affair. I didn't sleep all night and the pillow was wet. How can I also not understand why people who say they love me always change? Another week passed. My husband still looks like that. I decided to send an email to his friend.
When I opened our common mailbox, I found an email in the draft folder. I have never used the draft folder for writing. Could it be my husband? "When I opened it, I couldn't believe that the above thing was written by my husband. He wrote," Lingzi, what should I do? My business is getting worse and worse. Many companies are in arrears with my payment for goods, and I owe other people's debt. Now I have a chance to turn over only if I recover the payment for goods. The business is not good, and the "sex" interest is gone. When I come back to do it, my mind is all about business. My wife has never cared about my affairs. In her eyes, I am not only a sex slave, but also a cash cow. Recently, I found myself suddenly out of order. What should I do? Although I took tonic secretly, it didn't help at all. I dare not go home early, for fear of seeing my wife's courting eyes, I can't satisfy her. What's more, my wife already knows that I can't do it, so I can only lie to her that I have an affair. I really know what to do in the future
The truth came out, but how can I help him? I'm only 27 years old. Will I be a widow in the future? No, I must help him, and also help myself to find my former love. I know that the quality of business has a great impact on his sexual desire. I decided to help him collect debts. While he was out, I made a lot of phone calls to those companies, who promised to pay off all the payment for the goods in the near future under my bitter plea. In front of my husband, I didn't say anything. I just hope his business will improve. When he was at home, I would make some dishes he liked to eat to comfort him. When he was free, I would help him pick up the phone and pay the bill. I would no longer go shopping with friends like before. My husband's face gradually began to smile. I think the money was received.
That day, I went into the room as usual to go to bed. When I closed the door, a pair of strong hands hugged me behind me. I knew it was him. He finally needed me. My heart thumped and my heart felt back. My husband opened his mouth and wanted to say something. I covered his mouth with my hands, hugged him tightly, and said gently in his ear: "Love me, prove it with action." That night, My husband did not live up to my expectations for him.
After that, our sexual life has become healthier and more harmonious. I have learned that ED will have a great impact on men. At this time, the wife must use sincere, sincere and real actions to save his fragile nerves.
Expert explanation: Sex plays an irreplaceable role in marriage, which directly affects the stability of the family. Freud believed that sexual instinct is the most basic of all human instincts, and it is an indispensable energy for maintaining individual survival and extending race.
Experts pointed out that in this medical record, the husband showed the situation of "can do but not do" about sex, and most of them showed the unconscious avoidance of sex. It is characterized by sexual desire, normal response of male and female physiological organs, but not interested in heterosexual contact. They subconsciously think that there is always something they can't finish, and they have no time or mind to do things for men and women. And sexologists pointed out that this is an obvious mental disease. These people are stressed, anxious, often tired and depressed. In order to stand out, they have no sexual pleasure. At the end of the medical record, we can also see that the wife played a decisive role in saving her husband's ED. She changed her previous practice of being selfish and completely indifferent to her husband. She not only secretly helped her husband solve the pressure at work, but also gave her husband meticulous care in life, and finally brought her husband out of the shadow of ED. Therefore, in marriage, the wife is the spiritual support of the husband. The wife's encouragement and help is the key to the husband's rejuvenation.
What the experts want to say to all wives is that, as a close lover who goes hand in hand in life, you will first feel the subtle changes of your husband. At this time, you may take the initiative to understand his psychological state and give him encouragement and confidence. Clinical medicine has proved that the spouses of ED patients will gain better results if they participate in the treatment.