Women should not worry about themselves, or marriage will not be guaranteed
Perhaps it is the natural difference between men and women that leads to different concerns. After marriage, women worry about whether the marriage will last, while men don't. The so-called love is easy to be infatuated, but difficult to be in love. How far is forever may be the question women have always wanted to ask, but who can guarantee this deadline?
How far is forever? Why do women worry so much after marriage
In a survey specifically aimed at women, the survey results show that "the most interesting psychological problems" rank first in "worry about whether marriage is lasting". According to psychological experts, there are great differences in the psychology of men and women in intimate relationships. One of them is that women pay more attention to "whether marriage lasts" than men. Why are women so worried about "how far is forever" in marriage compared with men?
First of all, women's worries come from the reality of marriage.
According to the large public opinion survey report on the revision of the Marriage Law of the All-China Women's Federation in 2008, 8.2% of the total population in China have extramarital sex, that is, about 100 million people have extramarital sex, and extramarital sex has become a fatal hidden reef in marriage. However, the proportion of extramarital love initiated by men is three times that of women. Therefore, it is logical that women are more worried about the future of marriage than men.
Secondly, evolutionary psychology believes that in many species, females invest far more in their offspring than males, and so do we humans.
Men invest only a few minutes in the reproduction of their offspring, while women need to conceive in October, breastfeed their children, and take care of their children for three to five years. Those who invest more in the common cause will be more loyal, which is why women are more inclined to ask "how far is forever". Similarly, in order to maximize reproductive benefits, men hope to get more opportunities to contact with the opposite sex; Women tend to have a stable marriage relationship as a guarantee for their children's rearing and their own safety, which also determines that women pay more attention to the future of marriage.