Post Date December, 03 2023
For women, they are all novices in marriage, and believe that marriage is the prince and princess in the fairy tale who lead a happy life hand in hand. Because the expectations are too high, many women have no confidence in the ups and downs of marriage, and even can't extricate themselves from pain. But there are also some women who have been through ups and downs because of their marriage. How many women admire the calm and elegant, calm and capable from the outside to the inside. What can women do to go through the ups and downs of marriage?
Do what you love, even if you are sad and optimistic
If a woman does what she likes, her life will be enriched and her spirit will be richer. When there are discordant notes in marriage, these hobbies will form a strong resistance to the harm they have suffered, making her able to maintain an optimistic attitude. Being optimistic in the face of ups and downs is the most valuable quality. If a person has such a mentality, he will not be negative or extreme. Be stable and able to stand the test, and understand self-criticism and empathy. He will not mess around and be at a loss.
Understand that a lover is at least a friend and is used to save love
The mistake that many women are prone to make in marriage is that they start narcissism because they feel sad, as if they are victims, and no longer care about the feelings of the other party. Either a big fight or a cold war. Just imagine at the beginning, even if you are not a lover, you can also be a friend. Now that I am a lover, how can I not be as good as a friend? The so-called lover is the person who deserves to love with his heart in this life. If you can't give him the love and tolerance within your power, at least don't let him feel unhappy. Life is all for yourself, and a good mood needs to be built by yourself. Since we are together, we should lose our childishness, know how to maintain our emotions and cherish the good time together. This is respect for marriage.
Know "how to say is more important than what to say"
The ups and downs in marriage are the only way to happiness. Once they are over, the road ahead will be smooth. For the country, "one word can prosper the country, one word can also subjugate the country", and the same is true for families. The relationship between husband and wife is very close. Therefore, women should be more cautious about what they say and do, and do not be caused by improper words: years of love are forgotten in a minute of hate. Marriage teaches women not only the art of speaking, but also the self-control of life. When a woman reaches the level of "loving others as herself", she will know how to overcome hardness with softness.
A harmonious marriage is often the result of numerous ups and downs. For women, the ups and downs in marriage are the touchstone to hone themselves. If a woman has enough courage and courage to take the ups and downs of marriage as a training ground to strengthen her mind and pattern, she will certainly be reborn and move towards happiness and taste the joy of marriage!
