Many women are very emotional about why men have changed so much after marriage. In fact, this is because women do not fully understand men's views on gender. If you want to penetrate a man's heart, you must take a good look at the following content. Only by truly understanding him can your love be more lasting and happy.
There is a door in a man's inner world that a woman can never open. That's the door a man uses to protect love, and it hides his true views on sexual relationships. A man does not want a woman to see his inner interpretation of gender relations, because it can give a woman full of fantasy complex a crushing blow. But no matter how well a man talks, his most real thoughts are nothing more than these ten points:
1. In relationships between men and women, women often dominate rather than men.
Faced with the woman he loves, men can express great fear and insecurity inside. As the saying goes, "A man chasing a woman separates the mountains; a woman chasing a man separates the veil." There is also an interesting phenomenon: Among early overseas students, the woman who abandoned her husband first is often the woman who first actively pursued her husband.
2. In daily communication, it is not absolutely the man who takes the initiative and the woman who is passive.
Quite a lot of time, men prefer women to be more proactive. "Because men tend to take the lead in their careers, but when they enter the safe haven of a two person world, a woman's courage and positive attitude can help men find a balance in their tired struggle.".
3. The reason why men spare no effort to pursue something is often not because they like it, but because they cannot accept failure.
A man with a career and ambition will not spend too much energy striving for a hopeless thing. So, if you like such a man, don't play emotional tricks with him. Sometimes a man goes to great lengths to pursue a woman, not necessarily because he deeply loves her, but because he cannot accept failure. In this case, once he gets this woman, he is unlikely to have the strength to create the same romance as before, unless he still has a sense of insecurity in his heart.
4. "If a woman is too active in courting a man, he won't refuse, but he won't grow old with you.".
If you find that your favorite man is not interested in you at all, don't disappoint yourself by being with him willingly. "Because some men will refuse to come, but their hearts will never belong to you.". So for such a man, give up early.