As the saying goes, "Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." For most people, some injuries can be completely avoided. Of course, this requires you to polish your eyes, which is exactly what is said: open your eyes wide and close your eyes after marriage. Especially for those modern people who pursue higher quality of life and emotional life, it is more important to marry right or not. Some people say, "Good men are the same, but bad men have their own disadvantages." Although today's good doesn't mean tomorrow's good; Similarly, today's bad doesn't mean tomorrow's bad, but there are seven types of men who can't be married.
A man who is exclusive of himself. His words are "holy edict". If he disobeys a little, he is often angry, and if he is less, it is "rainy". With such a man, you have to have excellent quality, endurance and the bearing of "letting go of the old and accepting the new", or your gentleness has the function of "letting go of the fire", and you have to prepare more "umbrellas", otherwise, the "continuous rain" may shower you all at any time.
A man who is too flirtatious. If you don't have a heart, you are not a man. It's just that the way of heart is different. A philanderer only has a special liking for young and beautiful women. All beautiful women can have a panoramic view. As long as they come and go, he "reads" countless women. The women who are fascinated by him will naively think that they are the only one in his story. You will find out after getting along with him for a long time: Why is it always me who is hurt?
Men who don't go home. Lin Yilian's song "Fall in love with a person who doesn't go home" has sung how many heartfelt voices: "Fall in love with a person who doesn't go home, wait for a door that doesn't open." For a man who doesn't go home, home is like a hotel in his eyes, just a place for him to rest temporarily. If he doesn't want to go home, he can always find a thousand excuses and ten thousand reasons to fool you, deal with you and prevaricate. Although sometimes good women are coaxed out. But his "coaxing" needs to be supported by your love, patience and tolerance. If it is not for the "prime minister's capacity", it is better to stay away earlier.
A workaholic man. Good men are enterprising. In today's commodity society, which advocates "men's ability is charm", they have a wider range and greater killing power. Many of them are workaholics. Maybe he can give you everything: pride, glory, wealth, face, vanity. Of course, except, after all, it is impossible to have both fish and bear's paw, especially in today's fierce competition. If you don't care about that, that's another matter.
Too honest man. It is the kind of sullen gourd that people often say can't make a fart with one stick and do things in the heart. He is a good man, but not a good husband. Such a man is not lack of loyalty to you. You can be his sun. He can walk around you with diligence and hard work like the moon. In front of you, he always has the expression of "I wish you a long life, and we can share joys and sorrows". But in major and minor matters, he doesn't say a word. When you get back to it, you will find that you have married a "bottomless" man. Living with such a man, you will only be depressed, boring, upset, sad and bored.
A man with a vicious heart. The man who is too honest can't marry, and the man who is vicious can't marry. This kind of man can't afford to "offend". Narrow-minded, vindictive, six relatives do not recognize, and the most prominent characteristics of this kind of man is to turn his face away from others. With him, we are always in fear, in danger, and in constant fear. At any time, there is the danger of "being with you like a tiger" chasing you and oppressing you. Why should a kind and virtuous woman marry such a man?
A man of sweet words. Like a gust of wind, like a gorgeous foam drama. When the foam dissipates, everything will disappear. When you are round, he is beside you; He will leave you when he is old and yellow. "In the sky, I would like to be a winged bird, and on the ground, I would like to be a pruned branch." is his eternal oath. He will bring you a rose at the candlelight dinner, but he can't fulfill the waiting for you in front of the sick bed.
"Men don't have a good thing". Women who have been hurt will say so with one voice, no matter whether this kind of injury is attached to her by a man or she asks for it, she will say so. In fact, complaining can not only alleviate the pain caused by injury, but also accelerate and mislead the extension of a wrong idea because of pain and injury. Complaining at this time can only be a negation of your past choices.