Post Date December, 02 2023
When love comes, many women will be carried away and immersed in the river of love, enjoying sweetness and happiness. However, love is not only sweet, it also has bitterness and astringency. But who can take a clear view of love and control it? Women who want to achieve this, please follow these sobering principles!
1、 Don't invest too quickly
After you first met him, don't expect to spend every weekend with him, or insist on providing advice and decorating his home. Don't worry, you haven't married yet!
2、 Don't identify the other party too early
The quickest way to break up with a boyfriend is to tell him that you love him and you want to have a child for him, and his reaction is mostly to run away without a trace.
3、 Don't deceive yourself
Do you have a clear understanding of the motivation behind each of his performances? Is his attitude towards you very ordinary? Does he date other girls at the same time? Do you only contact him once a week, and do you recognize him as someone who can be entrusted for life? Or do you think his gambling addiction and violent temper are not serious illnesses.
4、 Don't dress excessively and exaggerate
You should show confidence, generosity, and propriety. Attraction does not lie in showing off sexiness excessively. Men believe that natural attractiveness is much more ideal than artificial "faces".
5、 Don't be too full of words
Don't think you must keep talking, silence is golden. Even if you both crave to get to know each other, there's no need to recount your life experiences in the last few dates. Silence is often one of the charms of women.
6、 Don't pay too much attention to his money
If you order a lobster dinner and tell him that your favorite gift is diamonds, eat it to your heart's content. You won't see him again, no matter how wealthy a man is, he won't like to be told how to spend it or who to spend it on. Men prefer knowledgeable women over those who are focused on finding long-term meal tickets.
7、 Don't invite him home too early
Don't invite him home unless you feel that he is inviting you into his life. Some men believe that inviting him home is inviting him to bed, so wait a little longer until you have a better understanding, so that similar awkward situations will not occur.
8、 Avoid getting intimate with him too early
If you slept with him the first time you met, how many men would he think should have been intimate with you? Therefore, this kind of intimate expression often scares the other party, and it is best to have a frank conversation and take a walk under the moon for the first time, which will become a solid foundation for the relationship.
9、 Don't try your best to please the other person
Do you think washing clothes, cooking, and taking care of household chores would make him like you more? Please think carefully again. If you are willing to be his foot cloth, he will step on it without hesitation.
