Women, in fact, men also need to rely on
Don't say that men must be strong... sometimes... men are more fragile than women... they just stop talking... women should remember... to care more about the men who love you... you will find that... their hearts are more fragile than yours
They will remember a casual word from you... They will be sad if you don't... They will be happy if you don't
Some people think that what I say is a cowardice. Actually, it's not the case, because everyone needs a support. Because there are many things in life that can cause heartache, exhaustion, and exhaustion. We all need a place to rest and rest. Relying on is not exclusive to women, and men also need it, sometimes even more than women. We often hear women say that they want to find a solid arm to lean on and receive comfort and firmness. Actually, men also need it. He is not looking for a stronger arm than himself, but for a soft resting place that allows him to rest peacefully, not a solid but a warm dwelling.
Sometimes men need a woman's nagging, a woman's complaining, and even more so, a woman's endless narration of their day's experiences. You may see a big man lying in the arms of his own woman, listening to her talk, just like a child listening to her mother's story so seriously, and with so much drowsiness. They listen to women not to know anything, but to listen to music and enjoy a kind of expression from the bottom of their loved ones' hearts. Men need to understand and care more, even if it's a trivial greeting.
Some people say they dislike their women's nagging, which is true because this woman's nagging is a topic that annoys men. It really makes men feel that they are not listening to their own woman's words, but rather listening to a kind of noise. Men are still afraid of loneliness. Even more afraid than women. They are afraid that their women will no longer speak, nor will they say anything in their hearts. They are afraid of their woman's departure, and even if they leave for a short time, they will still feel uneasy.
Men's dependence also comes from their attachment and loyalty to emotions, as they feel that emotional attachment and loyalty are more important than anything else. Because what they are most afraid of is a backyard fire, because it will cause them to lose a belief in the meaning of life. The meaning of life comes from the loyalty of human nature. Once men feel the lack of human nature, they will feel that there is no longer anything to trust in this world, and then they will become a walking corpse, with no happiness to speak of.
Men's reliance also comes from respect, as they believe that emotional respect for each other is second only to loyalty and persistence towards their emotions. They believe that all emotions come from persistent loyalty and mutual respect. This respect comes from subtle expressions, and what is not seen is a grand ceremony. Perhaps it's just a simple birthday gift, or perhaps it's just a simple gesture of respect for oneself. Sometimes they really don't need such specific things. It only requires a genuine concern from the heart, which is both vanity and practicality for men.
Men will also be like women when they are most sad and lost. Crying out is just a way of venting. At this moment, all it takes is a woman's action, touch her head, and say a few words of comfort. Don't go away, enjoy the silence with him, that's enough. Men can sometimes be very troublesome, but they are not as real as women. They do it secretly, and they won't even say it on their lips. Men are also very fragile because they bear more than women. Even a woman who is stronger than a man will not have more to bear, because a man is a carrier shaped by God that needs to be borne, and you cannot escape.