Siqi, 32 years old, had never rebelled before getting married. After graduating and working for two years, she met her current husband through the introduction of her family. I walked smoothly along the path of love, almost without much trouble, and got married to the first man in my life. After the child was born, Siqi originally thought she would continue to follow this small family, but the results were often unsatisfactory. What surprised her even more was that she was the director and protagonist of this family farce.
Siqi, who had not contacted her "best friend" for a long time, has been focusing on her marriage and family for years. When she was invited to attend the second wedding ceremony of her "best friend", she realized that she had long been disconnected from society and had more than a little idea that she should be eliminated. Once, those women who were not as beautiful or talented as her, one after another, were dazzling. Even if their appearance was not perfect enough, their "best friends" could attract 90% of people's attention in terms of temperament.
An experienced "best friend" told Siqi that if a woman wants to be forever young, she must learn to nourish herself with love and flaunt her tricks of playing with love with applause. Encouraged by these women, Siqi took the first step of deviance. After careful arrangements, Siqi began to frequently date the CEO of a certain company. This kind of love with a guilty conscience gives Siqi an unprecedented thrill. Whether she wears or thinks, Siqi gradually begins to change. In the eyes of outsiders, Siqi, who used to be a husband and a child, has become fashionable and young.
Siqi felt that this was a discounted compensation, making up for the loss of her lack of love during adolescence. Compared to her mundane marriage, extramarital affairs made her feel like she had returned to her student days and added a lot of excitement to her life. But in the end, the extramarital affair earned Siqi her husband's divorce agreement.
Women cheat just to regain their youth
Many women engage in extramarital affairs because they can enjoy the feeling of adolescence. Plain life, boring days, besides finding a lover, what else can make a woman who is tired of life feel like a princess in a fairy tale again? Maybe there is no other choice but a lover.
Lovers make women always feel like they are in love, and they never make women cook or wash dishes. And the husband always holds a cigarette in his mouth after work, resting her smelly sweaty feet on the coffee table, lazily flipping through the newspaper and watching TV, occasionally shouting, "Is the meal ready? I'm hungry!" Women face more temptations than men throughout their lives. Any woman with a slightly handsome appearance, from childhood to adulthood, from before marriage to after marriage, should have had the experience of being entangled with men outside of marriage, Women can regain the feeling of adolescence.
Extramarital love can allow women to enjoy a romantic feeling
Women need understanding and support, but husbands are sometimes not the best partners. The love between couples often fades away in real life, with little time for communication and a lack of calm atmosphere. So women often feel dissatisfied with their husbands. They need to find a lover to confide in, and the lover and she are not under the same roof and have no common conflicts. Instead, they can accommodate each other and communicate with each other. But no matter how beautiful an extramarital affair is, it is also a fleeting moment in the pan. What can truly provide you with a safe haven is still the family you dislike and the husband who is completely devoted to you.