As the saying goes, filial piety is the first. Many times we really don't know what is the standard to judge whether a man loves or not. So, as you know, today, Xiao Bian will go with you and ask, "Who will you save first when I fall into the river with your mother?". This is what many women will ask men. If a man doesn't even save his mother, how dare you want such a man?
The first woman, of course, is your mother-in-law.
I don't know how many brain-damaged women are chasing men and asking, "Who will you save when I fall into the river with your mother?". Do you dare to save your man first instead of saving his old mother who raised him as an adult?
This woman has been living with the man you love since the first moment she was born. No, she has been living with him since the moment she was not born. Isn't it self-defeating that you can't live with her and compete with her?
What's more, a man must be filial to his mother, even if it is not out of love, or out of responsibility and morality, they will not want to make any unfilial behavior, which makes them feel guilty and regret.
You chatter with your mother-in-law all day long, arguing about why you treat her better than me, and why you let her not let me, which will make men feel that not only you are not filial, but also in turn prevent him from being filial.
The second is his sister.
Because men always have a complex for their sister. Just as all women hope to have a brother who can love and protect themselves, all men also hope to have an obedient and beautiful sister. The title of brother has a special attraction for men. They must spare no effort to protect this identity.
Brother, he should be a hero, a superman who can solve all problems, and a family member whose sister can answer no questions whatever she says. Brother, you should also often grunt your sister's hair, bring her lovely toys, help her with her homework or act as her parent to attend the parents' meeting.
Therefore, the honorary title of brother needs to be defended by men. If you compete with a man's sister, you will compete with this title, and you will have trouble with the man's image of yourself. This is absolutely self-defeating.
The last woman you need to avoid is his idol.
Many men have their own idols, such as Zhou Huimin, a young lady, Fan Bingbing, a charming and shy Lin Zhiling, or Zhang Manyu.
Some men may be a little crazy. The computer is full of pictures of their idols, and they will mention their idols' names. In their spare time, they often watch movies about her or listen to her songs, and even try to meet their idols.
But you don't have to worry. Unlike women, men usually distinguish reality from non-reality. Idols, for them, are idols. At most, they will lust or fantasize about sex, but they will never think about how real and their idols are.
On the other hand, if you keep eating the jealousy of a female star and stop him from pursuing the star, he will make you unreasonable, unable to distinguish between reality and non-reality, and even interfere with his hobbies.
Conclusion: I believe that you have a further understanding of this article through the introduction of the editor. So, smart women, don't give men such problems anymore. Love you, love your parents, it is his responsibility. So, in life, we still have to get along well with men!! Sometimes you should be open-minded and tolerant, which will improve your image in the eyes of men, and also win some necessary chips when you should fight.