Here are four words that can make a man feel the saddest. As a woman, try to avoid saying these words.
Why are you so useless!
Women care most about their emotional connections with others, while men care most about their own abilities. Women, especially married women, often complain about their husbands' incompetence. Such accusations of incompetence can be both career and life related, but it is often this sentence that greatly hurts a man's self-esteem. The embodiment of career success and ability is the most important part of a man's life, and blindly satirizing and satirizing can only put a man in a desperate situation. Every man's abilities vary, and since women choose, they should face reality.
Look who has bought a new house, car
This sentence leads men to two conclusions. One conclusion is that they are useless and cannot meet their wife's requirements materially; One conclusion is that a wife is a powerful person who loves money rather than love others. "This way, a husband will not only be dissatisfied with himself, but also have sufficient reasons to be dissatisfied with his wife. If he talks too much about it, he will mistakenly assume that his wife is hinting at him, and the relationship between the husband and wife will become even more estranged.".
Have the ability to dominate outside.
After a quarrel occurs between a husband and wife, the wife who is usually polite and polite to others will be abnormal, and when quarrelling, she will make a fierce noise, saying this sentence to her husband. "There may indeed be many husbands who are cowardly and dare not be angry with others, only daring to lose their temper at home. However, this is precisely the pain in their character, and wives should not intentionally poke their husbands' scars.".
Who is she? What's your relationship?
If a man's mobile phone rings, his wife will unconsciously ask, "Who is it?" If the husband hesitates a bit, he will then ask, "Who is she?" "What's the relationship between you two?" Women have been suspicious since ancient times, which is understandable. They like to browse other people's phones, especially their husband's mobile phones and bags, which is also conceivable. But the distrust that husbands feel between their spouses can greatly affect their intimate relationships.
(Intern Editor: Liu Feifei)