Post Date December, 02 2023
They began to doubt their past, their love and marriage, their work and career... Several of my girlfriends summed up the collapse of men from their boyfriends or husbands. Men's age of collapse is 33. They said that at this time, men would almost collapse once.
What is a mental breakdown?
The so-called collapse is that they start to doubt their past, their love and marriage, their work and career, and even their values. When they can't stand it, they will do something that makes others feel strange, or break up, or divorce, or resign, or run away from home.
At first glance, people can't accept this strange theory. But it seems reasonable to apply it to many male friends around. Some people may not be 33 years old, but there is a year's error before and after.
Although it is not 100% collapse, there are about 70% and 80% of the area. Many men I know, about 33 years old, are anxious to change jobs, change careers, start businesses, and even choose a new city. More loyal husbands divorce, and playboys get married. All of them seem to be changing their ways, and they can't wait to deny themselves.
Why 33?
I discuss with my girlfriends. In our opinion, the age of 30 is even more devastating. As early as in college or earlier, girls were most afraid of being 30 years old.
At that time, girls often claimed that they would never live to be 30. In the eyes of girls in their teens and twenties, 30 is a terrible concept. The age of 30 is the age when the body gets bad, wrinkles grow on the face, no one likes it, and becomes a woman.
At that time, it was nothing sensational to say that he committed suicide when he was 30. Because most girls are very afraid of the disappearance of youth, they have to use such fierce words.
At the age of 30, it has become a milestone, and women are moving towards this level with fear. Therefore, the first year or two before the age of 30 becomes the year of collapse for women. I see that women are most likely to change their sex suddenly in this year of collapse.
In fact, there are many single women now, and the society is also unprecedented tolerant, but single women aged 28 or 29 are particularly prone to worry about this issue. It is easy for single women to become intimate. As long as the basic conditions are appropriate, they can't wait to marry themselves off.
Women don't
On the contrary, women who are dissatisfied with their marriage are particularly difficult to settle down at this age. They hope to have new emotions to change everything. A 29-year-old girlfriend of mine said that now is the only chance for me to find a really suitable person.
At this time, the external pressure seems to increase. In fact, those pressures are magnified by their own fear.
At the age of 30, a woman suddenly regains her normal state and faces everything calmly. I think it's probably because when it comes to this day, women find that they are not aging, they are still capable, energetic and confident.
The age of 30 has no pressure on men to die of youth, but it has pressure to stand up at 30. Thirty-year-old is an ancient Chinese motto, which has a very profound impact on men. So men tend to write articles summarizing their similarities and differences between 20 and 30 when they reach 30.
But today's men are often younger psychologically than our predecessors, so it will be a few years before they begin to worry about their future career and emotional family affairs. They began to feel that everything was not satisfactory, and they felt that they had to take the last step. So they entered the year of collapse.
Like women, if they can safely spend their year of collapse, they will be themselves again.
