In modern society, male infidelity is no longer a topic, and wife infidelity gradually becomes apparent. Although the probability of a woman having an affair increases, there are not as many examples as knowing her husband's affair, because even if the wife has an affair, the husband will not talk to others like his wife does. Women always like to complain, while men always like to be silent. When a husband has an affair, a woman can, like Xianglin's sister-in-law, tirelessly complain and complain to her family and friends, saying, "I'm really stupid, really..." She croaks out her husband's affair to her family and friends, still clinging to a sad tear. Men, on the other hand, have an affair with their wives, and it is themselves who lose face. Men refuse to let their face be lost in front of them. Therefore, even if his wife has an affair, he will pretend to be okay in front of his family and friends, and bear the heavy mental burden of his wife's infidelity alone. Even if it's because of this divorce, he will only pretend to be magnanimous and say to others, "I'm sorry for her. I'm usually too busy with work and don't care about her. Now that there's such a man who loves her, I wish her happiness." So, with such a calm breeze, he will whitewash his wife's infidelity and cover up his inner anomalies. He won't show his pain to others for jokes, men are a face conscious animal.
When his wife is cheating and going out on a date, the husband will not directly ask, "Are you seeing a man outside. Especially afraid of learning that his wife has another man, which will greatly damage his male self-esteem, making him feel inferior to another man, and thus losing confidence. He breathes a sigh of relief when given the excuse from his wife, pretending to believe it and maintaining his final self-esteem. Some people say that a wife is very sensitive, so she can quickly detect her husband's infidelity, while a man is slow and often cannot detect her cheating. In fact, this is an illusion. Men often have a sharper observation than their wives, but in order to maintain a illusory expectation from their families, they force themselves to turn a blind eye to their wives' anomalies. Men value their families very much and would not divorce unless absolutely necessary. This is because society restricts men. If a man complains about a woman's infidelity, others will pity him. This pity is something that a man cannot tolerate. He cannot tolerate others looking at him with pitiful eyes, and his male self-esteem does not allow him to be a pitiful person in front of others. Therefore, even if his wife is cheating, he will generally swallow his breath and pretend to be deaf and mute, as if there is no such thing. And if a man gets divorced due to his wife's infidelity, others will doubt his ability. Can a person who can't even manage his wife be competent for this job? As a result, it affects one's career, so men generally do not want to divorce and choose to maintain their families more, ignoring the anomalies of their wives.
A man's sexual behavior is extremely psychological. After his wife has an affair, he is worried that seeing his wife's lover will severely undermine his confidence. Examples of sexual impotence caused by inferiority are also not uncommon. Men are face saving animals, and males in the animal kingdom fight fiercely for courtship. In addition to wanting to mate with females, there is also a problem with male face saving. They are strong and invincible, so how can they lose to other males? Therefore, if they lose, they will be greatly affected, feeling disheartened and powerless. The same is true for humans. When a husband discovers that his wife is having an affair, he feels embarrassed and ashamed of the man who defeated him, resulting in a sense of inferiority. This is almost a devastating disaster for men, directly destroying the other person's spirit. Therefore, men would rather pretend to be deaf and have an illusory hope to maintain their pitiful confidence. In ancient times, if a woman had an affair with someone, she would sink into a pond or be burned to death. Therefore, if an ancient woman had an affair with someone, she would have the consciousness to die. However, in modern times, cheating is not the case. Nowadays, men with higher education have always been more rational and calm. Even though they may become angry and angry when they know their wife is cheating, they can still maintain their family even if they are separated from each other. Men place great importance on their families and are willing to maintain this empty marriage for the sake of their children. However, there are also those who have a irritable temper and lack much concern. If they know their wife is cheating, they will resort to violence. If their wife has a slight affair, they will beat her up and kick her, hoping to make her honest in this way. However, most people are also unwilling to divorce, just hoping that their wife can settle down.
When a wife is attached to her husband, the husband is promiscuous and unfaithful. The wife is unwilling to pursue her current status, while the husband and wife stand in opposition to the family. The husband does not want to let life be chaotic and turn a blind eye to the wife's anomalies.