Post Date April, 15 2023
What is the mood of a pregnant wife and husband? When a man learns that his wife is pregnant, he will exhibit various behaviors. Generally speaking, men have these common psychological reactions.
Announce widely, panicked and helpless
A man may feel like a different person after hearing the news of his wife's pregnancy. For example, immediately start posting news on social media, as if everyone wants to know the good news about his wife's pregnancy.
Self described scenario: I got up at around 5 o'clock in the morning to test the two bars, and then I climbed up to the bed with half a doubt and said to my husband, 'I seem to be pregnant...' He instantly woke up. After the diagnosis, he immediately posted on his social media and made phone calls, announcing to all his good friends that he was going to be a father, happy as a big child. Then he started to fidget again, unsure of how to take care of my baby. He was very nervous and cautious, afraid of hurting me. Now I think about it all I still feel so happy... ".
Stunned and surprised, with a bewildered face
After his wife became pregnant, a man's first reaction was to feel surprised, with a stunned expression written on his face.
Self narration scenario: Just one month after getting married, I became pregnant and immediately happily told my husband. He was sleeping in a daze at the time, and upon hearing the news, his eyes widened as he looked at me. It took him a long time to recover and he didn't say anything else.
Moved and ecstatic about winning the prize
After his wife became pregnant, a man's reaction was to give her a big hug and a long kiss, with an expression on his face as excited as winning a prize.
Self narration scenario: Xiaomin's husband and his wife were watching a pregnancy test together. After seeing the two bars, Xiaoke's husband immediately became more anxious in the bathroom. At that time, he was still sleeping soundly in bed, and Xiaoke woke him up, saying that I might be pregnant. He jumped out of bed and grabbed the pregnancy test stick in Xiaoke's hand. Seeing the two bars, he was very happy and knew he was really going to be a father. He was extremely excited. This type of husband will take the initiative to take on household chores and cook nutritious and delicious meals for his wife. Mastering the psychological changes of a wife, communicating with her in a timely and effective manner, avoiding the generation of negative emotions in her, and providing her with the strongest support is a good husband and father.
Nervous, taking care of everything
After learning that their wife is pregnant, some men may feel nervous and at a loss. When they adjust, they also take great care of their wife, like pandas.
Self narration scenario: My husband doesn't allow me to do anything and is afraid that I will be hungry all day. Even when I walk a few steps, he comes to help me, just like a young eunuch helping an old Buddha. In the early stages of pregnancy, he buys a pile of maternity clothes, health products, and delivery bags, and the baby only needs a walker that is at least 10 months old.
The Reflex arc is long, and then excited
After learning that his wife was pregnant, some men's Reflex arc was slightly longer, as if their brains were suddenly short circuited because of this important information. After calming down, he turned into a very excited state.
Self described scenario: I used a pregnancy test paper to test my pregnancy. At that time, my husband was still sleeping, so I went over and shook him up. Then I calmly said, "I'm pregnant." I don't know if my husband didn't wake up or what, he stayed silent for several minutes, then suddenly jumped out of bed and pushed me down, shouting, "Lie down
Pretend to be deep, secretly happy in the heart
The wife told her husband that after getting pregnant, there may be men who are introverted and unable to discern their emotions, but in fact, the joy in their hearts can be judged from their various behaviors.
Self narration scenario: Xiaomei's husband belongs to this kind of person. When he first learned about Xiaomei's pregnancy, he didn't react much and only lightly agreed to go to the hospital for examination together. After arriving at the hospital and confirming, he was still very calm, but when he left the hospital, he suddenly couldn't help but laugh like a madman.
Panic and seek help
When most men learn that their wives are pregnant, their first reaction is to be caught off guard, and there are also many men who seek help from family and friends.
Their first reaction was: Ah, I'm not ready yet. When encountering such a husband, ladies should not be angry or sad. He is not someone who doesn't love you or doesn't accept the child in your belly, but he is indeed not ready. You need to encourage him, discuss with him, and accept this process. Because he needs to learn, including changing his own role, he needs to learn to take care of his pregnant wife, create a comfortable and happy environment for pregnancy, and let his wife have a calm and happy mentality.
Worst resentment
Although I don't want to talk about it, there is indeed a husband who complains that you didn't tell him earlier and even demands an abortion. He says he's not ready to accept this life, but in fact, he's not prepared to spend his life with you. When you encounter such a scumbag, you only have one choice, and that's to ask him to go as far as he can.
