But the topic we are going to discuss today is, women, why should you take the initiative? First of all, I want to ask you a question first: Do you think it is easy or difficult to meet a person who is very satisfied with your conditions, very feeling and suitable for you?
We all know that love is easy and difficult to get along with. However, if you think that the number of people you know since childhood is roughly 500, half of them are girls, which will be reduced to 250.
From the perspective of probability, do you think you can meet the kind of object we just talked about among 250 people? In addition, if you are a passive girl and only consider whether to associate with a man when he comes after you, what is the probability of meeting the person you like? This is very basic mathematics. You can think about it yourself.
Think about it. When you buy clothes, if you don't hurry to pick them and grab them, if you just stand there and wait for everyone to choose, how many clothes do you have left to choose? Don't buy things in one way, but choose men in another way.
I think that if I don't do something and want to get happiness passively, it's not burning a lot of incense in my last life, or it's really naive. There are several solutions, one is to increase the number of men you know, the other is to make yourself a person who chooses others, and make the men who come after you become the type you like, because you choose.
And this thing can be solved with the best of both worlds at one time, that is to know how to take the initiative.
The reason why you need to take the initiative is what we just said. If you want a man who knows how to respect you to enter your life, this kind of man must not need to use too many methods to attract the attention of many women around you, but you expect the other party to cross the psychological barriers to establish communication with you? Isn't that silly? A man who knows how to respect others will not enter your life until he gets your permission. If you always want to look like a man who is not a bird and is not easy to get close to, those boys who dare to approach you are either shameless or have a lot of practice.
Do you think how many of those people who approach each other without fear, regardless of the girl's bad face or the feeling of not wanting to be a bird? Usually this kind of person, it is easy to treat you as one of many prey or playthings, or sweet talk to everyone. The passive can only choose from the men who are chasing themselves, but everyone has a tendency to pursue something better than themselves, so most of the men who are chasing you must not like them.
The so-called permission has many aspects. When you don't know him, give him the affirmation of his eyes and smile, tell him that I allow you to talk to me, and I won't bite you nor hate you. ". Or they are not familiar with each other after knowing each other. Even if they do not take the initiative to talk, they should also take the initiative to greet each other and show their affinity. At least, men should feel that they have a chance.
The magic and encouragement of eyes and smiles for men is absolutely beyond your imagination. There are too many people who have verified the power of eyes and smiles, making you a lot of peach blossoms wherever you go. However, it is impossible for you to know such devil-like details without observing what women who are particularly good at men do.
Especially in this era of generational alternation and drastic changes, many women still do not know that they have no one to want and can not meet the objects they like. In fact, it is just a matter of their different attitudes and behaviors from others.
Women, you should take the initiative, because the initiative talents will create more opportunities for themselves, because the initiative talents are enough to be the people who choose others, not the people who are selected.