Post Date December, 03 2023
"If men have money, they become bad, and if women become bad, they become rich.". This proverb is a classic word of mouth among many netizens. In fact, for men, extramarital affairs are something many men, especially those with successful careers, will face, and many men are even more proud of it. So what is it that causes men's psychology?
One is curiosity. Curiosity is universal, and in terms of sexuality, men have a more exploratory spirit. If only exploring between couples, it will add color to legitimate sexual life. However, some men with weak self-control may engage in extramarital sexual behavior under the attraction of the unknown mystery of "What is the wife like, what will other women be like?". If he finds that having sex with another woman is no different or worse than having sex with his wife, and may cause some trouble, he may give up. "If he finds that the taste of" wild flowers "is indeed different, and he has a certain economic ability or charm, then he may also be addicted to them.".
The second is adventurous psychology. The last two sentences in the so-called "wives are not as good as concubines, concubines are not as good as maidservants, and maidservants are not as good as thieves" are a reflection of adventurous psychology. Generally, men are more adventurous than women, and if used in couples' lives, they may be able to create some new patterns or stimulate interest in their lives. But if used on other women, there will be problems. Some men who encounter setbacks during sexual adventure, such as sexual dysfunction, contracting or fear of sexually transmitted diseases, may return to their families. Some men enjoy taking risks, which is dangerous. "There are also individual men who can only achieve sexual pleasure or extraordinary sexual sensations through sexual adventure, and they may commit repeated offenses without correcting them.".
The third is to conquer psychology. Both men and women have a desire to conquer. When falling in love, a man catches up with a woman, or a woman puts a man under a pomegranate skirt, all belong to the satisfaction of the conquering mind. After marriage, some men satisfy their desire to conquer other women in order to show their abilities, or to seek self-confidence, or because of their incessant lust.
Fourth, compensation psychology. The incentives for men to develop compensatory psychology can be classified as follows: (1) The wife is unable to satisfy her husband due to sexual dysfunction, psychosocial disorders, injuries, or other reasons, or is unwilling to satisfy her husband due to sexual misconceptions, and even uses sexual punishment as a means of resolving marital conflicts. (2) "The wife may have a poor figure or appearance, or may be aged or discolored, or may be injured or disabled.". (3) The wife is domineering and vicious, which seriously bruises her husband's self-esteem and easily leads her to be seduced by external warmth, leading to sexual relationships and even marriage changes. (4) The husband has a strong sexual desire, and the wife is difficult to satisfy.
Fifth, retaliatory psychology. Sexual retaliation caused by a wife who is not a virgin, or who has been flirted with by a woman, in order to achieve psychological balance.
Sixth, a competitive mentality. On some occasions, when a friend falls in love, he or she flinches and loses airs too much, resulting in face damage; Or, under the influence of gambling and encouragement from others, they become strong and act accordingly.
The seventh is the psychology of being coerced. Attend a pornographic venue together with a leader. If the leader goes on, it is inevitable that he or she will lose the trust of the leader and have to join forces.
The eighth is animal sexual instinct. Most animals do not practice "monogamy", and humans also have this animal attribute in nature; When social constraints do not work, animals reveal their true colors. For example, under the active pursuit and seduction of other women, they cannot withstand the test of throwing themselves into the arms, resulting in a loss of grace and integrity.
Understanding the above male and female psychology of having extramarital affairs is very helpful for women to understand the inner world of men. For men, the pursuit of extramarital affairs is nothing more than the stimulation and feeling that distinguish them from their families. If women want to prevent, they need to learn to manage their own lives.
