Living together every day inevitably leads to aesthetic fatigue between couples. If not taken seriously and corrected, it is likely to lead to a decline in the quality of the marriage, and even lead to the outcome of separation.
Therefore, when your partner experiences these situations, they should really be taken seriously!
Situation 1: I have completely lost patience with you
Aesthetic fatigue can lead to a subtle sense of disgust that cannot be completely concealed, and this disgust can be fully revealed through the other person's unintentional body movements or expressions.
For example, in the past, you used to go shopping in pairs, or you used to nag and listen to each other.
Recently, there has been a situation where one party has lost patience and is no longer willing to accompany you shopping on the street. When you nag the other party, they will become angry, and so on. This subtle change is definitely not without reason.
Situation 2: Always comparing the opposite sex to you
If your partner often praises other members of the opposite sex, consciously or unconsciously, and always compares them to you, your heart will definitely not be comfortable. For example, your husband praises other women for how smart and capable they are, how they manage their families frugally, and how they manage their families in an orderly manner.
For example, your wife often praises other men on how to show consideration for their families, how to make money, and how to make their families live a happy and comfortable life. This indicates that your spouse is tired of your lifestyle habits, and this phenomenon should be noted.
Situation 3: I have no common language with you
If your lover is no longer interested in chatting with you at home, lacks the excitement of chatting with you when he was young, and frequently goes online, then you should pay attention to whether he has made any female netizens.
In such an ambiguous atmosphere, if the two of them say something and then schedule an offline meeting, what will happen afterwards is unknown.
Situation 4: You are like air in his eyes
If your partner is too lazy to talk to you recently, doesn't take the initiative to greet you when they return home, or doesn't take the initiative to tell you their whereabouts when they go out, and you often find them absent-minded and distracted when you take the initiative to talk to them.
Even if you have important family matters that need to be discussed with him, the other party always appears perfunctory, or completely detached, or likes to be alone and treat you like air. This phenomenon should be worth your attention.
Situation 5: Sudden aversion to being in the same room with you
Aesthetic fatigue can trigger a chain reaction of visual and auditory aversion, which is often difficult to control. Therefore, if your partner rarely talks to you after returning, try to avoid spending too much time in the same room as you, and do not like to sleep in the same bed as you except for sleeping.