When you are in love, you and I have endless love and sweet words. They just want to stop time. However, after marriage, this situation will change. Women keep saying this and that at home, but men are silent. Sometimes they can't ask. Why?
Moreover, there is also a rule that after becoming a husband, a man begins to have a tendency of "cherishing words like gold", and this tendency is absolutely proportional to the length of marriage. That is to say, the longer the marriage, the more silent and silent the husband is.
From many cartoons of family life in the United States, we often see such pictures: the husband on the breakfast table always blocks his face with the newspaper, and watches baseball in the sofa when he comes home from work, while the wife is always chattering from front to back, but her voice seems to interfere with the husband in real life. "Newspaper" is often their favorite, which makes many wives complain and do not speak about his death, I hate my teeth, but I feel helpless.
There must be some reasons for this. Now let's take a look at why men don't talk at home.
1. Physical and mental exhaustion
One of the main reasons why men don't like to talk when they come home is that they are physically and mentally tired. Work pressure, unhappiness and psychological distress can cause people to fall into depression. Therefore, it is likely to be necessary to adjust during the first time when they return home. At this time, the wife should not talk to him, but give him some time to relax and ease his body and mind. Then, when he recovers, when he wants to talk and needs to talk to someone, he will open his mouth.
2. Pour cold water
Men don't like to talk at home at the beginning, but are hit by their wives. They will lose interest in talking after a long time. For example, the husband excitedly told his wife about his pride in the office today. Instead of giving encouragement and recognition, the wife said, "What's so great!" which made the husband boring. Who is interested in speaking again after several times? No one will stick hot love to cold buttocks all the time.
There are many women who care about their cosmetics, clothes, weight, etc. They never care about their husbands and are indifferent to their husbands. I have no interest in the society, the country or even the world situation, and I don't understand anything, which is really disappointing. This makes many men feel that what they marry back is not a wife, but a Buddha. It doesn't mean much. Naturally, I won't speak when I get home
4. Language attack
This kind of situation often happens when two people have differences on one thing, which is the most inappropriate time for the whole of you to grow longer and shorter. If you always argue over a little thing, how can you not be exhausted and boring? Another fatal injury is "attack". Wives often have a strong hurtful force in their words. They use words to attack each other. Although they are quick to speak for a while, they are the fatal injury that causes the estrangement between husband and wife.
5. No common language
That is to say, what we said is not congenial. The level of thinking between the two people and the topics we care about are different, so there is no common topic between the two people. If we can talk about something, it will be very embarrassing. Don't say whether the other party likes to listen or not. The most important thing is that the other party doesn't understand. Look at the reaction of the other party. In the end, there will be no interest, and the rest is angry. All, it's better not to say.
Taking the above factors into consideration, it is not difficult to find out why men don't like to talk at home.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)