In the current society where we live, the word divorce no longer surprises people. For men, divorce is usually to find a more suitable partner, but in real life, we find that many divorced men are unwilling to choose marriage again. What is the reason for this? Let's follow the emotional expert editor to explore the reasons why divorced men don't want to remarry.
Why don't divorced men want to remarry?
Confessions of a second-hand man
In this era, more people are divorced than the stars in the sky. The word divorce, though not a commendatory one. But the high divorce rate is also a fact. This reflects the strengthening of people's sense of autonomy. In a sense, maintaining an appropriate number of divorce rates is necessary and a manifestation of social progress. Divorce has become a common phenomenon.
If the flame of sexual love is ignited and the overall combustion is stable and normal, then marriage becomes a logical matter. After marriage, as time goes by, each other will gain new understanding and discovery of the other, and the more sincere love and affection that existed in the early days of love may gradually weaken or even disappear. Living together involves many things, but once both parties gradually realize that there is no need to maintain a marriage relationship with the other party, divorce may become a matter of time. In fact, in a considerable number of existing families, the relationship between husband and wife has faded, or has no feelings, let alone love. In some families, one party still has feelings or love for the other party, while the other party is no longer interested in the other party. For various reasons, these family members cannot get divorced even if they have the idea of divorce, so they barely make ends meet. Only the person concerned knows the meaning of the situation best.
"If I get married again, the most beneficial thing is that others say, 'He's not single anymore, he's married!' In others' eyes, it seems like I've accomplished a big deal, and it's worth being happy for me.". But in my opinion, this trivial so-called "reputation" has no significance. Moreover, I am not a person who cares much about others' opinions, and I pay more attention to my true feelings. I will never marry for the sake of marriage.
Why don't divorced men want to remarry?
I don't want to find a lover either. "A woman of the opposite sex, no matter how young, beautiful, and charming she is, being a friend can be considered appropriate, but she will never be a lover with her.". Friendly relationships can make people relaxed, while romantic relationships can make people tired. I don't want to let myself get stuck and tired.
Some kind-hearted people suggested that I start a family, saying that there are usually people to take care of, and when I am sick and hospitalized, there are people to serve. Actually, unlike many people, I don't want others to care more about me, which only annoys me. When it comes to housework, I am smarter than most women, and I am particularly neat. I keep my home organized and organized, and I can take care of myself and take care of my own home. If I were really ill and hospitalized, I would be optimistic to say that there is a way to drive to the front of the mountain, and at most I would die. What's the point!
"I think it's so good now, so comfortable, so natural, so do what you want to do, and play wherever you want to.". Spend your money as you want. When there is a surplus of money, it can also moderately support the closest person. Moreover, I am a person with a wide range of interests and hobbies, and I feel that time passes quickly every day. Although divorced, I never feel lonely, I never feel lonely, I always feel that I don't have enough time, and there are almost no disadvantages to being single.
It's really frustrating to think of my only marriage, and it's comforting to see my free life now. Now, my first girlfriend believes that I am happy, and she is sincere.
Some people may think that I lack a sense of responsibility. I don't think so. Everyone has their own way of life. "I made my own choice not to remarry, which does not affect the normal lives of others, nor does it cause harm to society.". If I get married, I don't think I can do my duty well for each other. Isn't that hurting others? Moreover, once I get married, I will become a caged bird myself, and I will be very uncomfortable, which also harms me? Why harm two people at the same time because of marriage? In this sense, I feel that I made this choice with a sense of responsibility.