Post Date December, 03 2023
In today's society, divorce has become as common as eating, and fear of marriage has also spread widely. Pull your fingers and there are so many people around you who have contracted "marriage phobia", some of whom are even terminally ill.
Marriage scarers say that dating feels great and relaxed, why use a wedding letter to tie two people together? Getting married is too troublesome, so it's better to be a lover. When we get together, we can get together, and when we don't, we can break up without any psychological burden. They rationally believe that as time goes by, there will always be times when they are tired of each other. Why constrain others or themselves? Therefore, they always hold a wait-and-see attitude towards marriage and are unwilling to bet their happiness on their future spouse. Those who have narrow horizons and are obsessed with the world of two people all day are the least promising in the eyes of those who fear marriage.
There are always many kind-hearted and old-fashioned people in the ears of those who are afraid of marriage, constantly persuading them that they are old enough to get married. But there are some reasons for those who fear marriage to linger outside the besieged city, afraid of losing their freedom, afraid of being trapped by their wives and children, and afraid that marriage will ruin their existing happiness.
Those who are afraid of marriage are worried that they will eventually be unable to avoid the vulgar outcome of marriage, and who can predict the happiness of the long future. Perhaps one day, those who are afraid of marriage will grit their teeth and persuade themselves to overcome their fear of marriage, stepping onto the red carpet with fear and thin ice, but the huge psychological obstacles may still make them feel a strong sense of loss. Despite repeatedly emphasizing to oneself that marriage is not as terrifying as imagined, a sense of pressure or fear still lingers.
