Post Date April, 15 2023
Love is something that makes people feel sweet and happy. But it often happens that once a woman is in love, she becomes angry. What the hell is going on here? Let's take a look together. What is the reason why women tend to get angry in love?
Italian female scientist Marachiti conducted research on this. Research has found that men in love are more like women, and women are more like men. Men will become more gentle and affectionate, while women will become more passionate and unrestrained, indicating that women are more likely to be "barbaric" in love and are more prone to "finding fault and getting angry" with their boyfriends.
And the results of this study also coincide with the situation of many couples in life. Girls in love often lose their temper with their boyfriends, often leaving boys at a loss. They often hear boys exclaim that girls' thoughts are really hard to guess. Is there a psychological basis for women in love to be angry? In fact, a girl's intentional or unintentional tantrums in love are a test of her boyfriend, which is actually due to a subconscious self-protection mentality.
Next, let's take a look at a case study to see what happens when a woman is angry?
Miss Ma, who is 24 years old, currently works in a foreign trade company. A year ago, she met her current boyfriend at a classmate gathering and they quickly started dating. Xiao Ma said, 'In the eyes of my colleagues, I am famous for my good temper and always happy.'.
But I don't know why, since I officially started dating my boyfriend, I always get angry and angry with him. Actually, I know he's not wrong either. Sometimes I think he should just let me go and spoil me. Especially in the few days of each month, whenever I think of my boyfriend, I tend to feel disgusted with him. The more I think about him, the more disgusted I become. I always want to find fault and get angry with him. Fortunately, my boyfriend has a good temper, otherwise he would have ignored me long ago
The reason why women experience this mentality is mainly a subconscious form of self-protection. Usually, they think that if the other party doesn't let her down during a relationship, how will they live their future? So girls will intentionally or unintentionally set some obstacles for their boyfriends in love, to see if they can tolerate them. Playing a tantrum is just one of the test methods, and of course, it is also the most commonly used way. For example, intentionally being late for a date mainly depends on the boyfriend's reaction. As long as he shows any displeasure, he will inevitably be "bombarded" by his girlfriend, perhaps after being scolded, Just gameover. In fact, a woman who loses her temper is very cute. If she stays with a girl who never loses her temper, it's like drinking plain water. Although it quenches her thirst, it will definitely feel dull over time, because human nature is fond of novelty and does not like being unchanging.
And for the reasons why women tend to lose their temper in love, experts have also made a detailed summary for us:
1. There are some differences in self-confidence between men and women. Adolescent girls, with the development of their sexual psychology, are increasingly concerned about their gender roles and physical characteristics. Whether they are slim and beautiful is something that worries and distresses them. Women in love experience anxiety about more things, which is also the reason why they tend to get angry;
2. When there is a dispute in love, the tolerance of both men and women is also different, and women are more vulnerable and appear more angry;
3. Men and women have different roles in love. When men play the active role, the more eager they are in pursuit, the more nervous they become and appear gentler than usual. Women, on the other hand, intentionally or unintentionally set some obstacles for their boyfriends in love, to see if they can tolerate them, or simply test them with tantrums;
4. This is the different requirements of traditional social culture for men and women. In our cultural tradition, men are always required to be magnanimous, generous, composed, and tolerant, and not to be overly critical. For women, society can accept their diverse personalities.
Of course, although it is very cute for women to lose their temper in love, it is also advisable to stop it. If you always lose your temper, men will also be unable to bear it and end up saying goodbye to you.
