Post Date December, 03 2023
The word "light mature man" is now gradually spreading. In fact, "light mature men" refer to a group of men who, although they have reached a mature age and have an irrepressible passion, are mature but not necessarily boring, do not resist fashion, and have their own characteristics. "Men who know how to capture happiness, enjoy and taste life are gradually becoming more recognized and sought after by society.".
He's KIDUT
KIDUT refers to adult children. They like to dress up tender, like pink, they refuse to grow. KIDUT is more of a fake fashion, and the Chinese entertainment industry is full of such men. It's hard to imagine a group of middle-aged men bouncing around and pretending to be cute, even often with a strange Hong Kong and Taiwan accent.
Whether such a man is an expression of his true temperament or a fake fashion that he pretends to be, what worries people is whether beneath his seemingly innocent appearance is a cowardly heart that escapes reality and is unwilling to take responsibility?
He wants to hug left and right
The tragic murder of Gu Cheng, a poet on the drifting island, once shocked the Chinese people. "That was a handsome man, he was amorous and romantic, he was charming and unrestrained, he attracted Xie Na and Ying Er.". He longed to be a scholar in the Liaozhai, and to have a flying swallow and jade ring.
Mature men tend to be more affectionate. The more determined a man is in his heart, the more he needs more women and love. At this time, so-called love is not only a rule, but rather a way to satisfy the feeling of inner weakness.
They know that longing for romance is the weakness of women in the world. At the command of romance, many women will follow him to the end of the world regardless of anything. But to uncover the appearance of pseudo romance, is it a baby with a small beard?
His Lolita complex
"Old man and young wife "Not only is it a secular expectation, but in the words of psychologists, it is also a Lolita complex of middle-aged men. Love knot experts point out that the reason why middle-aged men are more interested in underage girls is because their lives lack dreams. He needs to prove his youth in this way. Therefore, one day when you accidentally turn over some kind of evidence of his nostalgia for first love, you may wish to understand him and treat him as a return to a youthful dream." After all, everyone has their own complex and secrets.
He enjoys being pseudo single
Tan Ailing in "I Want to Be in Love" has tried every means, but the man she loves so much just flashes his words and avoids them when she mentions marriage. Mature men often enjoy being single. He is not willing to take responsibility. As long as he is in love and not married, he does not want to be too involved in relationships. He even does not want to maintain a relationship with only one person, preferring to enjoy the freedom of being single.
Such a man is more likely to be moved by a rude offense than by giving him the necessary distance. He is not actually not refusing marriage, but he needs a broader heart to accept him.
Outstanding professional suddenly resigns to become a free agent
A psychological survey of IT professional managers' frequent job hopping suggests that this is a sign of middle-aged men returning to themselves. They once devoted all their time and energy to their family, society, and so-called secular life, but one day, he suddenly wanted to live for himself, throwing away his armor and drive shell, and living his true self again. At this time, he became like a child with a childlike innocence, and did not want to ignore the constraints of society and stereotypes.
For women, small things can be tolerated, because when a man has played with childlike innocence, sometimes he will find the true meaning of life in this game. Isn't life just an advanced game?
He's Forrest Gump of the New Era
In "Forrest Gump", Annie actually knows Forrest Gump is a good man who can be entrusted for a lifetime, but he has not yet opened his heart and does not understand women's hearts. "He is Guo Jing from" The Legend of Heroes in Shooting and Carving ", with a wooden appearance. He treats you wholeheartedly, but he is just not open-minded about emotions.".
In many men engaged in the science and engineering profession, it is often possible to see the prototype of this kind of man. He is mature in age, but his emotional intelligence is very low.
So Annie in "Forrest Gump" still ran away, even if she finally came back scarred, but she would go to a distant place to find another kind of love and man, because even if that man is bad, he understands her heart, and the interests between the sexes are sometimes not just plain, but also require intense collisions.
