In real life, many male friends often appear silent in the face of their wives and girlfriends, which makes female friends very curious about their actions, and then want to find out the specific reasons why men like silence. According to the experts who study male psychology, the characteristics of male silence are related to male physiological factors, and the reason of male silence is often the epitome of male chauvinism.
For many women, men's silence after marriage is a hidden disease, and men's silence is much more. I often feel that chatting with my wife is a waste of time; I like to be alone, and don't want to discuss with my wife when things happen; It is hypocritical and vulgar to think that pleasing the other party; Never bow to his wife and admit mistakes; Never discuss the sexual life of husband and wife; I seldom think about what my wife needs; When confronted with contradictions or problems, the husband and wife often sulk; When talking about ideas with each other, they often appear absent-minded. In the face of all kinds of silence, the woman wants to ask the reason, but often with silence.
Silence is closely related to men's physiological factors. In primitive society, men were responsible for hunting, while women were responsible for picking and taking care of children. So over time, men developed the habit of being silent and enduring loneliness, because hunting often requires long-term ambush, neither moving nor speaking; Women have developed the habit of being talkative and sociable, especially between women and women. Women can only get psychological satisfaction with 5000 words a day, which is much more than men with 1000 words.
In addition, men's silence is closely related to men's and women's lives. Once a man catches a woman, he will shift his goal to pursue another career. Because women are very afraid of loneliness, once they feel impatient with their husbands, or impatient with themselves, or spend more time and energy with themselves, women more or less complain and take pains. Because women are full of sensibility and have high expectations for men, men do not know how to answer many women's questions, so men will choose to be silent.
Men's silence often makes women feel afraid and uneasy, so when the husband is silent, the wife is always very upset, but there is no way to resolve the embarrassing situation. For resolving the silence, men and women should understand each other, change their wrong ideas, build a new life and break the silence together after marriage.