In this era when it is difficult for men and women to have pure friendship, some non-single men still hope to have female friends and call them female confidants. Married women will prohibit men from saying more than half a word with other women. In their view, as long as men can't disconnect, they must be lovers. In recent years, "confidante of beauty" has begun to take the place of lover and become popular. Why do men have to find a female confidant?
1. Having a beautiful "Iron Brother" will make people more proud
Men may be eager to have a confidante. If a good friend is good wine, female friends are undoubtedly a very intoxicating kind. They are more careful because of their different status and can help men more than lovers; What a wonderful thing it would be for a woman who is full of eyebrows to do things more effectively than a man.
2. A bosom friend is a kind of dedication without seeking return
Xuan is a down-to-earth man. Unfortunately, his career failed in a bad time. His wife can't help him. His friend Xue has been with him for many years, starting from scratch again, just like starting from scratch. Two years later, Xuandongshan rose again, the house and car came back, and the family returned to its former affluent life. In the past two years, Xue has not only done what ordinary friends have done, but also paid for women's unique wisdom and tenderness. In fact, for a confidant like Xue, Xuan's happiness and success is the return she wants.
3. Such a gentle embrace, how can it not make men move
If he is depressed, he may get drunk. If he has some strength and courage, he may find someone to fight. However, if there is a considerate female friend, he may talk to her or even cry.
Men will not easily tell their troubles to the same sex, because in their view, this is a ridiculous and weak practice. However, beauty is different. They are willing to listen to his heart and understand his heart better than their wives at home.
4. She doesn't monopolize you, but she shares your heart
Once women become wives, they will no longer treat men objectively. They like to monopolize, but their confidants will not. Most people have their own hidden personality. If the other half of a man is a woman, it is more likely to be the confidante.
5. Beauty confidants are usually very smart
If a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or be a "confidant of beauty" that he will never get. In the final analysis, beauty confidants contain many things. Love is too short, marriage is too boring, and only female confidants can last long. Therefore, women who can be content to be a man's confidant are usually open-minded and intelligent.
In general, many men consciously keep a certain distance from their female confidants after marriage, and consciously do not contact with outside women. In fact, this is not necessary. Women's heart to prevent men from cheating is understandable. However, the friendship between men and women is not just love. For a man, a pure friendship is also a treasure he cherishes.