Post Date December, 03 2023
We all know that getting married and having children is something everyone experiences. For some people, marriage is beautiful, but for some people, marriage keeps them from moving forward. With the continuous development of society, many men now have various reasons to avoid marriage when they reach the age of marriage or when they should talk about marriage. But why are many men afraid of marriage? This is a topic worth discussing. Let's give you a brief explanation.
After marriage, there are many inner worlds that are not convenient to express directly in a man's world. For example, the wife is not as delicate as before, but still has to face it. Parents urge you to hold grandchildren, which means that you not only need to work harder in your sexual life, but also need to work overtime to earn milk powder money. Sometimes I don't want to go home after work, but in order to fulfill my husband's responsibilities, I have to reluctantly go back, even when I get home feeling unhappy, depressed, and silent. During the day, even if he is unwilling, he should call his wife from the office because he feels that his wife has this requirement. On weekends, he has to cook, run errands, repair, and then sit in front of the television completely passively, trying to play a competent husband and father. When he and his wife are socializing with other couples, he has to play the role of a hospitable host or likeable guest, when in fact he has no interest in it.
How to "Marry" Yourself for a Leftover Girl
With the development of society, more and more women are now leaving home and moving to the front line of work, so there are many strong women. However, it is precisely because of this that more and more women are entering the ranks of "older leftover women". For this issue, every woman wants to marry out quickly. So, how do leftover women "marry off" themselves? Let's give you a brief explanation.
1. Sideswipe
If you want to take off your bill earlier, stop being so reserved. We have entered the ranks of older leftover women, so if we meet a satisfactory target, let's hurry up and start. However, women who are too direct sometimes do not please, and the possibility of rashly pursuing a man is very high. So, it's best to start with his friends and feint at the other boys who are easy to win. In the process of interacting with these boys, you can insinuate about the situation of this boy, and at the same time, you can frequently visit their places, deepen their impression of you, let them also understand you, and slowly test whether they have a favorable impression on you. If you have a favorable impression, launch an attack at the appropriate time and be able to break it down at one stroke.
2. Bring the distance closer
"Only by getting closer can we get along better with each other and let them discover your strengths.". But only if you already have a goal. Try to join him in your circle of friends, so that within your "sphere of influence", he is like a tiger away from the mountains and a dragon away from the sea. When he faces a strange environment, you must occupy an active position. Coupled with your friends, relatives and friends constantly promoting your benefits, it is no longer difficult to convince them.
3. Take the initiative to pay the bill
Don't think that paying the bill is something that men do. Sometimes women also need to take the initiative. Although it is customary for boys to treat guests in terms of money, don't take this practice for granted. Sometimes, it is quite necessary for you to take the initiative to pay the bill, so that the other party does not feel that you are always taking advantage of him insatiably. You can also buy small gifts for him at the appropriate time. The gifts don't need to be too expensive, but exquisite small gifts can bring you more material and emotional rewards.
Due to the differences in the division of labor between men and women in society, men seem to take on the role of supporting their families in marriage. This makes men feel that pressure and social responsibility are all pressing on them, as if they are the only ones working in the whole world. It is precisely because of these differences in psychological conditions between the sexes that men often feel powerless to play a mature role in marriage. He often works hard to adapt to the situation and reach the peak, but it is far from his early education. I have to change my inherent rhythm of life and force myself to become another person. As a result, he always felt oppressed and plundered. In the eyes of others, they have always been regarded as a standard man.
