Post Date December, 03 2023
Nowadays, there are more and more leftover women, leading to the trend of blind date, which is even the most popular form of love at present. However, not all blind dates have results. On the contrary, many people's blind dates end in failure. So, why did the blind date of leftover women fail?
1. "I pretend to be aloof, so I've all come to participate in the blind date. I still like Gao Gao holding it on the ground and pretending to be reserved.".
Many leftover women blind date because they always like to put on airs and feel superior to others. The paradox is that even though they are very proud, they are still willing to make blind dates. Since dating requires learning to let go of your figure, in this era, it's possible to lose love if you take the initiative. Waiting for someone else to take the initiative to pester you is too stupid. Abandon that damned reserve. Being too reserved will only make the other party quickly deny the blind date.
2. Too formal to let go, not knowing how to show off, making the whole date dull.
Contrary to the above, there is also a category of leftover women who are too reserved to let go and completely do not know how to demonstrate their strengths. The entire date was a mechanical question and answer session, with no interest at all. This repressive atmosphere made the other person only want to end the date as soon as possible. Formality is the number one killer of blind dates, so cherish every opportunity for blind dates.
3. Habits are preconceived, and once you are not satisfied with the other person's first impression, you begin to engage in absent-minded dating.
It's not a good habit to jump to conclusions about a blind date based on preconceptions. Don't put too much emphasis on first impressions, and don't deny the entire date just because you feel bad at first glance. It is too early to draw conclusions now, and it is important to give each other and yourself a chance to get to know each other in depth.
4. Overzealous and purposeful, making the other person think you are a marriage maniac.
It is undeniable that many leftover women choose blind dates because they hate to marry and are eager to marry. However, I warn all leftover women that it is foolish to express their hatred for marriage on their faces, to go straight to the subject and express their purpose, or to be overly courteous towards each other. Your excessive enthusiasm can scare away the other person and make them think you are a terrible wedding maniac.
It can be said that the four reasons mentioned above are the reasons that lead to the failure of blind dates among single people. If female friends want to get rid of being single, they must first straighten out their mentality and maintain their mental health, so that they can greet a new relationship in the most perfect state and harvest a love that belongs to you.
