Post Date April, 15 2023
As the spokesperson for "male confidants" in the mainland entertainment industry, Dai Jun once explained why he is so attracted to women, saying: 'Because I enjoy being with them, giving gifts, shopping with people, and providing them with life guidance.'.
The phrase 'there is no true friendship between men and women' may have been outdated for a long time. Accompanied by the army of leftover women, as well as our dear intimate brother, we analyze men's psychology when hesitating, add details when discussing gossip, give advice when preparing to meet a new man, and even in despair, he will say, 'Okay, if you can't get married at the age of forty, I will take you in.'. So, we used the words from the bottom as a life-saving straw, woke up all night, full of energy, and went to fight against the "work windmill" and the "man's windmill".
Kangxi is here ", the top sample of male confidants
In fashion soap operas, we often see that trendy female protagonists have a close male confidant who can be used as a man when moving and as a woman when confiding; You have your own boyfriend or husband, he has his own girlfriend or wife, and you are close but never take that step beyond the boundaries, because in each other's hearts, each other actually has no gender, and even if you look at him for 10 years, there is no other heartbeat or even want to marry him... just like Cai Kangyong and Xiao S.
On the evening of November 14th, the 2009 "Kangxi Festival" National Tour Concert Hangzhou Station opened at the Huanglong Sports Center in Hangzhou. In the cold wind of early winter, singers such as Li Yuchun, Zhou Bichang, Show Lo, and superjunior-m were very popular, but more people were watching how Xiao S and Cai Kangyong cleverly responded and teased the stars.
Many people's ears are still ringing with the unexpected performance of Cai Kangyong in Shanghai in June. He sang Mayday's "Crazy World" and said, "After midnight, it's Little S's birthday. I want to give her a soda green song called" Unmatched Beauty. "The song made Little S cry, and Cai Kangyong added another stick to the fire, saying," Xu Xidi is the most unparalleled beauty in the world. "Little S said, Cai Kangyong is omniscient and willing to accept new things and perspectives, and can chat with him on any topic. Whenever there is a stir in the entertainment industry, she will definitely tell Cai Kangyong, "I can't imagine the days when Cai Kangyong is not here. It's boring. We really need each other very badly
Five and a half years ago, Cai Kangyong and Xiao S began creating the popular interview entertainment program "Kangxi Comes". The tacit understanding between the two gradually became unbreakable amidst the accumulation of over 1000 episodes of the program. In the program, while robbing other men, Xiao S would symbolically say "I'm sorry for my husband" to the camera, except that the one who didn't need to register and greet was teasing Cai Kangyong. Because he is her super confidant, his boyfriend George, who is 1.8 meters tall.
Male girlfriends are a completely different species
Boudoir is exclusive to girls, it not only has the meaning of a close friend in the boudoir, but also exudes a warmth and fragrance. Nowadays, fashionable women are no longer satisfied with finding same-sex partners to share their thoughts and friendships. 'Beauty confidant' is a clich é d term, which is a trick played by men in society, with the main body being men. Nowadays, women also want a heterosexual confidant and alternative intimate relationship.
"I like to discuss emotional issues with my boyfriend." In the Starbucks of West Lake World, Linda said while drinking cappuccino, "For me, a boyfriend is a completely different species from an ordinary male friend. He can give you objective advice more than a female boyfriend, can make up for your personality defects, and let you think clearly."
Linda said that establishing friendships between women usually has a strong feeling, such as when they look at each other and their personalities are in sync. But male confidants are not like this. From childhood to adulthood, Linda's male confidants have no one with the same personality: a Scorpio man, a Cancer man, a Libra man, and a Pisces man.
Male girlfriends of different periods and personalities have played different roles in Linda's life: for example, her high school classmate Scorpio was a role model for Linda at a certain period, providing her with many suggestions on her learning and life attitude; University alumnus Libra has allowed Linda to discover many of her hobbies and pleasures; After graduation, my first job colleague, Cancer Man, discussed his ideals and life trajectory with Linda.
Linda's latest male confidant is a Pisces man with a very similar personality and hobbies. They have a rat like affinity and can go shopping, go shopping, exercise, and watch plays together. He will learn about women's views on a certain issue from Linda, and Linda will learn about the way men view and think about problems from him. "We talk about all kinds of topics, including men's sexual fantasy and women's aunts."
It is undeniable that the thinking of men and women is always different. Otherwise, how to say 'men come from Venus, women come from Mars'. With male partners, we can talk about everything from south to north, and from him, we can discover more hobbies and fun. They are not as fussy and jealous as girls, which makes you feel relaxed and happy.
Many people have doubted Linda's relationship with her male confidant, and Linda scoffed at it. Firstly, they have a revolutionary friendship, and calling them "sisters" is quite similar; Secondly, the male confidant has already started a family. Another special feeling is the feeling of a trash can, and we promise to be each other's trash cans, and they are oversized, "Linda concluded. Recently, Linda is falling in love with another man, and all the Pisces man needs to do is help her figure out how to catch up with that handsome guy.
He's a bit feminine, which makes us more in tune
Not long ago, in an online survey on "what kind of man is suitable for being a male confidant", "Cai Kangyong style" and "Zhang Guorong style" became the most popular choices. They share common traits: tenderness, delicacy, talent, admiration for men, appreciation for women, and even a slight tendency towards femininity.
Appreciating women is crucial. Women are always complaining that their boyfriends are unwilling to go shopping with them or watch soap operas with them. You gossip with them in high spirits, but they just stare at the game screen of the top-notch racing car and say, "Why do men always wonder about romance
While women sighed, they unexpectedly discovered that there were also men who could play roles that were almost indistinguishable from women's confidants. More importantly, they are men, and you cannot act coquettishly towards female confidants, but towards male confidants, this is your right.
Women like men to appreciate the results of their shopping, but many men often forget to appreciate them.
Or perhaps your male confidant has a slight tendency towards femininity. In 'Sex and the City', Kelly has one where they can lament each other's feelings that they wouldn't experience in the world of love, even though they are all complaining about men.
Men with a slight tendency towards feminization tend to have more delicate thoughts and understand women better than average men, which makes communication between men and women more harmonious, "said Director Yu of Zhejiang Hospital.
I won't take advantage of the opportunity to enter, nor do I need to be wary of being taken away by a sword. Women believe that they are both gentle and reliable, able to understand men and understand women, and willing to listen to women's confidences. But Director Yu said in an interview that this could also be a misunderstanding. Because people's selfish mentality cannot be denied. Becoming intimate between men and women is sometimes a need to relieve each other's loneliness, but deliberately blurring one's identity is not practical, and it does not rule out that some people use it to conceal their good feelings for each other. Motivation may be complex and not necessarily as simple as some people imagine.
