Post Date December, 03 2023
To please his "fianc é e", the man signed a "loyalty guarantee" before marriage, stating that "if he files for divorce, he will compensate his wife 2 million yuan". This guarantee letter is to add a layer of assurance to your marriage and make it last for a long time. After all, 2 million is not a small amount, and the cost of filing for divorce is too high. However, two years later, the husband resolutely proposed marriage, why is this?
Lack of trust in wife
Trust is the foundation of peaceful coexistence between two people, and neither can be trusted for a long time? In the text, the husband lacks trust in his wife, endlessly quarrels with suspicion, and the marital relationship becomes increasingly cold. The way for couples to get along lies in sincerity. They don't even have basic trust in their wives, and they live in suspicion every day. Aren't they tired? I once saw a piece of news that both parents have double eyelids, and the child has single eyelids. The husband suspects that his wife is wearing a green hat for her and is admitting marriage with his wife's blood on his back. The wife took her son to undergo a paternity test to prove her innocence. When the man was still immersed in the fantasy of having a free wife and a good son, his wife gave him a hard blow and proposed a divorce. The wife was suspected by her husband, and she felt insulted, resulting in disheartened feelings towards her husband. Therefore, it is natural for her to propose a divorce.
Attacking and insulting his wife
Nowadays, there has always been a trend on the internet for good husbands in the new era, which includes "obeying orders from the wife, blindly following mistakes from the wife, and willing to accept anger from the wife". There is also a saying that "the wife is always right, please refer to the first rule when the wife is wrong". Of course, the so-called standard of a good husband is a woman's fantasy, which is rare in real life, but there is one thing it is not wrong, and the wife must endure anger. When a wife quarrels with herself, the needle points at the wheat awn, giving each other a sharp fight. She only cooks the oil with intense heat, and the more the argument, the more severe it becomes. The ultimate result is a loss for both, affecting the relationship between the couple. When a man and his wife have disagreements in the text, it is not a calm and peaceful conversation, but a confrontation and verbal abuse with his wife on the spot, leading to the breakdown of the couple's relationship and increasing indifference.
Lack of inclusive communication with wife
After entering the marriage, the two of them live together, with overlapping spaces, and many small problems that were previously unseen erupt. At this time, what couples need to do is to tolerate each other, sit down and communicate, rather than blaming or enduring. Accusing the other party can cause resentment and dissatisfaction; Silent tolerance is even more unacceptable. One day, it will be unbearable. Once it erupts, the rebound becomes even more severe, and the couple will inevitably have a big argument, affecting their relationship. In the article, the man said that the woman rarely does household chores and monitors the man's schedule to sign in on the "attendance table". Although he may not be happy, he silently endured it and often argued when he couldn't bear it. How could this not cause the relationship between the husband and wife to break down?
