Post Date December, 03 2023
Divorce is the result of many couples' choice after their relationship broke down, but many women are reluctant to divorce. Many women lament that they are not happy after marriage, and even have no hope for men. In spite of this, they still swallow their breath and do not consider divorce. Why are women reluctant to divorce? Next, let's take a look at women's views on marriage.
First, if you fall in love with habits, you will have no courage to choose again
A woman with this mentality can be said to be persistent and loyal, but the premise is that she must meet a good man. But more often, we have to say that she is stubborn and cowardly. There is such a woman whose marriage is not so miserable, but she still stubbornly waits for the hell and refuses to let go. On the surface, she is brave. She can sacrifice her life for marriage - "death is better than divorce". But when you really think about it, she is the most timid and cowardly woman. There is no future in marriage, and her husband treats her as a human being. But she is still immersed in those beautiful dreams that were once short, and still can't get out of those humble habits. How terrible loyalty and cowardice is this? Her cowardice has been so cowardly that her men cannot see her minimum dignity as a woman.
Second, children are the eternal concern of women
It is not women's fault that women do not want to divorce because of their children. If we have to find a fault party, it can only be God's fault. Because it is his family that endows women with the greatest and most fragile character - motherhood, which always makes women give up all their pursuits, and motherhood makes children become the eternal concern of women in their life.
To be honest, I don't know whether to eulogize or disparage women's motherhood in such an environment, because we are talking about marriage and women themselves, rather than pure human nature and dedication. As a woman, she should live for herself. Children are important, but children are not necessarily in conflict with her own happiness.
Third, the crows in the world are generally black, and there are no branches around the tree
In real life, a considerable number of women, after experiencing a failed marriage, will subjectively blame this failure on all the men in the world. They are blind to Mount Taishan, and ignore all the men in the world because of one man's fault. They simply subjectively believe that: the world is as black as crow, and men are unreliable!
Therefore, after suffering from the betrayal and emotional failure of men, they have no enterprising heart. They think that men are all the same. Even if they break up, they still need to find another man. Every man they find is "as black as a crow". It is better to be patient and stay with a man for a lifetime than to keep tossing and turning.
Women are weak. After marriage, most women will be happy, but many women will be forced to divorce. In fact, women are often more dependent. When she identifies a man, even if the other party makes something disappointing to her, she still feels reluctant. Especially for families with children, it has become a major reason for women to stick to marriage.
