A survey on divorce has found that in divorced families, the probability of divorce is much higher in families where the woman proposes a divorce compared to families where the man proposes a divorce. When it comes to marriage issues, we always find that women's determination and men's unforgettable love. It seems that breaking up is not the end of a relationship for men. They often find it difficult to truly make up their minds to end a relationship, and even after breaking up, some men still remember their ex's old love.
Divorce is more likely to make men lose their emotional affiliation. Scientists have found that in real life, men are not as likely to forget old relationships, thanks to a neurochemical called antidiuretic hormone, which makes men feel untrustworthy of other men in times of crisis; But the same chemicals can make women feel that other women can trust and be close in times of crisis. This is the genetic difference in behavior, which means that when a man is comforted by his girlfriend and says, 'How excellent you are, how foolish your last girlfriend was without judgment,' the man may fall into silence and feel unhappy. Another reason why men are afraid of breaking up is that they consider each other as their "belonging", so a man will not easily abandon a woman he still loves, which will make him feel emotionally without belonging. So men have to endure more health torments than women after breaking up, because research shows that divorced men have much lower immune systems than married men, so divorced men are more likely to become regular visitors to hospitals or die earlier than divorced women.
Men find it more difficult to truly rebuild another relationship. Research has found that although men may initially feel excited after a breakup, they can date other women. But after three or four days or decades, they will realize that it will take a long time to find the feeling of being with their ex girlfriend, which will make them feel uneasy. One reason why women recover faster than men after a breakup is that they have an amazing social circle. Research shows that men rely on love for emotional intimacy and social support, while women prefer to consider family and female friends as the safest refuge, including mothers, sisters, friends, beauticians, and drivers. On the other hand, men tend to pretend to be indifferent to breakups, and six months later, when men are willing to be honest about their feelings, they often regret their decisions.