Post Date April, 15 2023
A wife said, "My husband has been loyal and honest all his life, with a decent demeanor. But recently, I don't know why, he has suddenly become very unorthodox and particularly likes to read articles about sex. The day before yesterday, he even brought back a video with pornographic scenes to watch. I'm really embarrassed for him. He's almost 50 years old now, isn't he a bit 'old and unorthodox'
From a scientific perspective, it is unfair to define one's spouse as' old and unscrupulous'. Physiologically speaking, as one ages, sexual ability gradually decreases, but men's interest in sexual activity does not decrease. Some people even show increasing strength, which creates a strong contrast and contradiction between physical weakness and psychological strength, making oneself feel embarrassed.
Faced with this state, some people adopt a method of promoting strength and avoiding weakness, that is, not striving for a complete sexual life process, but pursuing psychological satisfaction. So, they found text and visuals related to this, satisfying their sexual needs through these indirect stimuli, immersing themselves in memories of past sexual life.
This situation becomes more apparent with age, as men's sexual desires sometimes become ineffective solely through physiological stimulation, but psychological stimulation can still be effective. Although men's actions are not based on vulgar taste, those images or words cannot be imitated, and sometimes it may also harm the wife's confidence in their "sexual attractiveness". At such times, the husband should pay more attention to his wife's feelings, and the wife should also intentionally give her more information that can arouse his "sexual interest".
