Post Date December, 03 2023
"I'm busy" can't stand the test of time. If men always say "I'm busy" to women, it will increase women's insecurity. Over time, women always want to find out why men are busy, and even become annoying. So why do men say they are busy. Men are busy reflecting what kind of heart they have. Listen to the introduction of male psychologists.
Women in love always seem to be a little uneasy about their husbands, so daily phone calls and other behaviors are common. In the long run, women will change from worry to disgust, because no matter how smart they are, they will understand men's thoughts when they listen to "I'm busy". Even so, many female friends still want to know why men always say they are busy.
First, in the traditional view, the man who is busy with his career all day is a successful man and a good man. Therefore, the man in love is willing to use "I am busy" to improve his status even if his career is flat.
Secondly, some love masters are willing to end the conversation with "I'm busy" in the phone or mobile phone message when they are communicating with women, so that women, especially those who adore him, will have an illusion, and will have more sense of dependence and expectation on him.
Third, men with low intelligence and connotation are often used to stopping abruptly when talking with women on the phone, because he doesn't want the other party to "break the casserole and ask the end". "I'm busy" is his best excuse. After that, he can escape in a dignified manner.
Fourth, some inferiority men want women to cherish him more. They often put "I am busy" on their lips, so that women can cherish every opportunity to meet him and improve the "gold content" of dating.
Fifth, some men can't find the right reason or lack the courage to refuse a woman because of various reasons that are difficult to talk about.
There are also some "I am very busy", men do not understand that the basis of interpersonal communication is to be honest, which leads to the lack of real friends. However, because it is difficult for him to get rid of his bad habits, he has increasingly increased the frequency of using "I am busy", which ultimately leads to his loneliness.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
