Post Date December, 03 2023
A very interesting phenomenon is that men do not feel much about themselves when traveling or staying out for some reason. And once a woman goes out, she often harbors "ulterior motives", although unlike women dealing with men, they are restless on the phone one after another. People who can joke say this: The love between husband and wife is evident, and the wife can't bear to leave for a night.
Men are afraid of green hats
In fact, from a psychological perspective, this is a hidden "sense of instability" in men's hearts. Let's colloquially call it "green hat phobia", and this "instability" is afraid of what happens to their wives behind their backs.
Research has shown that women have a much higher level of trust in their husbands than men in their wives. This is consistent with real life - men can confidently stay out all night drinking and playing mahjong, and coax women out with a few words, while men often do not treat women in this way.
I once saw a case where a couple declared their marriage dissolved after three years of marriage,
The reason for divorce is that the husband has extreme distrust of his wife. Whenever the wife goes out, the husband needs to check her underwear. If he finds a lot of secretions, he needs to investigate and chase after her fiercely. Living in a tense atmosphere of skepticism for a long time, the strings of marriage finally break before a person's nerves break.
Sexual behavior is an exclusive psychology
Having sexual activity will inevitably leave a large amount of secretions on his underwear. This husband's "chastity testing method" can be described as straightforward, but he forgot that the increase in female lower body secretions is due to various factors, including sexual activity (including sexual imagination), gynecological diseases, intense physical activity, etc. "secretions" have become a substitute for his distrust mentality, Formed a psychological cycle of "secretions"="infidelity".
There is also a typical "suspicious wife" behavior - showing a strong aversion to the men around his wife. Colleagues, classmates, friends, and even relatives, as long as they are male and have a high frequency of getting along, especially those who have more opportunities for the wife to mention them, will be included in the "blacklist", carrying this "blacklist" and accumulating depression into "green hat phobia". They will spend their time researching and arranging the frequency of contact between their wife and these "suspicious objects" The venue and time are in a high state of vigilance and vigilance for a long time, always feeling like 'something's going on', but always unable to grasp the handle.
The Extension of Virgo Complex
There are many reasons for the formation of this sense of distrust, but in summary, there are only a few types:
One reason is due to the "virgin complex", where the wife is "suspected to be out of place" when getting married, or it is very clear that she is not her first lover
The second is a remarried couple, both of whom have a history of marriage and varying degrees of're love experience '
The third reason is the inferiority complex, which is usually caused by the woman's extroverted personality and her ability to thrive in her career and work compared to the man. There is a phenomenon where women are stronger and men are weaker
The fourth is hearsay, troubled by special examples around me. When I hear that a woman has such an experience, I am always wary of my own people.
As the saying goes, "Heart disease requires heart medicine" and "To cure a bell, one needs a bell tied person". Trust comes from the purity of both parties' emotions and also depends on one's inner calmness. There is a "hallucinatory" inference that can be referred to - if you say there is it, there is it; if you say there is no it, then why not infer it as nothing
Animal trainers in zoos can still achieve a tacit understanding with beasts, why can't they have more trust with their legitimate spouses
