Post Date December, 02 2023
There was a divorced man who knew a woman through work, two of whom loved each other, and lived together for five years. The woman was from 25 to 30 years old, and the idea of marriage never stopped. When talking about this topic, the man found various reasons and refused, In the program, his voice was expressed: "My friends told me that you have broken away from the shackles of marriage, and didn't you jump into the well again after remarriage? You are so stupid...... I don't want to get married myself. I know that it is not easy to become a family after getting married. There is no house. The living expenses of a family at ordinary times, the sick expenses of the elderly and children, the education expenses of the children in school, etc., which is not money, so I don't want to get married.".
Marriage is a dream paradise for two lovers who love each other, while marriage is also a forbidden place for the couple who have suffered emotional trauma. Marriage is different from love. It bears more responsibilities and irreversibility. When love burns all over you, you'd better take a cold bath after marriage to decide how to build your own happiness road.
I don't want to comment on the unforgivable shortcomings of the men and women who have been bruised by marriage after they have been married for N years. They are both hurt by marriage. For those who have had marriage experience, divorce means the dissolution of a family. No matter who is responsible, it will inevitably cause irreparable pain and injury to both parties.
However, if they can reorganize their families, the joy and fear in their hearts cannot be expressed. Neither they nor their children should have cherished the happiness of being late again, but this marriage is so fragile. Most of the old people divorce after remarriage because their children try to interfere with the old man's property, and the old man is forced to divorce. Middle-aged people who handle divorce after remarriage are mostly nostalgic and suspicious of each other. This kind of marriage without emotional basis will soon disintegrate when the two sides are in conflict. It is worth mentioning that the economic burden of the remarried family is heavier. Due to economic factors, if you have money, you will have it with you, and if you have no money, the phenomenon of "goodbye" is also very common. Few people share weal and woe. It can not be said that some are basically "money couples", and the difficulty of the children of the remarried family is also an important reason that affects the feelings of the remarried couple.
Why do divorced men now regard remarriage as a ghost? This makes people wonder: Is remarriage really about jumping into the well? Although they also love their woman, can live with her as a husband and wife, and be considerate and caring, but when they mention the word "remarriage", they will feel cramped and weak, and let her never understand the real idea of a divorced man.
It is because Xiaoju doesn't know where her future marriage is and whether to marry someone to give her a sense of belonging that she often sleeps and tears. At the age of nearly 30, she has always loved her married husband. Her family introduced several men to her, and one of them was in a telephone conversation. But her true love is a man who can't marry her, but she can marry someone she doesn't love. She is no longer young, and she is no longer young. Where to go is often painful for her.
Under such circumstances, her boyfriend divorced, which made her see a glimmer of light in the dark. She said that in the past, because her boyfriend didn't divorce, she didn't care about anything. She was willing to spend her life with him without distinction, and she was willing to accept that kind of life. Now that her boyfriend is divorced and they haven't married for a day, she feels insecure, as if she will be robbed of love by others at any time. She always thinks of that sentence: it is easy to love a married man, but why is it so difficult to love a divorced man?
A remarried man said that what remarried couples lack is not only communication, understanding and tolerance, but also the blending of love and the tacit understanding of heart. He is only a superficial reconstruction of a family, a natural relationship between men and women, and a combination of reality. It seems that this seems to be complete, complete, loving and happy, but in fact, they are struggling to support this marriage that is close to reconstruction.
Remarried couples always have secrets in their minds, and the relationship between their children is difficult to deal with. Unlike the original couple, they always have one mind, fight and quarrel, and are really at home. The children are harmonious and sweet, and the family is happy when reunited. This may be an important reason for fear of remarriage and divorce.
