Post Date December, 03 2023
Zhang Ailing once said, "Love without love never goes bad. Therefore, we flirt, we are ambiguous, but never fall in love." However, in reality, men and women are always tempted by extramarital affairs and fall in love. "Once an affair occurs, it can have a tremendous impact on marriage and family, ranging from affecting one's own life to desperation or even suicide.". It's easy to have an affair, but who's going to buy it?
1、 Both parties involved in an affair
Since both parties to an affair are bound by the existence of marriage, they must pay a price for their actions. Some people have an affair for stimulation, some for comfort, some for pure entertainment, and some for unhappiness in family life. However, few couples in an affair actually have feelings, and even if they do, such feelings, under the constraints of marriage, appear to have no purity or nobility to speak of. "Because physical desires can be satisfied, moral condemnation will continue for a long time to come.". If two people have no emotional foundation, they will never be able to bond with each other for a lifetime, and they will only be left alone with the exchange of flesh and money. Therefore, both parties in an affair must pay for their actions. Either give money or give time, body, and sweet words.
2、 The other half of one or both parties in an affair
There is no airtight wall in this world. Once an affair is known by each other's partners, a storm is often inevitable. A quarrel is a trivial matter, and the key is the pain experienced by the other half. Those with poor mental adjustment often breed various diseases or divorce. These are actually paying for the other person who has an affair. Sometimes the person involved in an affair may not have considered his or her own family, and if his or her significant other values the person involved in the affair very seriously, he or she may also have the idea of committing suicide. Therefore, these problems are actually paying for the behavior of the adulterer. Although the other half of the adulterer is innocent, they cannot be avoided. Unless the other half of the affair is a very powerful person who can withstand the wind and rain, such a family will most likely experience misfortune.
3、 Children of one or both parties in an affair
"The person involved in an affair may only be interested in temporary unrestrained behavior, but once this happens, if it leads to the breakdown of their own family, the most pitiful ones are often the children of the person involved in the affair.". Children who are affected by their parents' unhappy marriage may leave a shadow in their hearts from an early age, coupled with the impact of single parent families, and may feel afraid of marriage or establish incorrect marriage perceptions. In the future, when they grow up looking for someone, they will either distrust each other, or establish incorrect perceptions. Moreover, they would rather be single than marry. These are all due to the psychological trauma caused by their original families in their infancy. Therefore, the children of one or both parties to an affair often become indirect victims of paying for both parties.
The sequelae of an affair are numerous. It has a significant impact on the person, the family, and the children of the adulterer. So, it's exciting to have an affair, but just watch the news. Never involve, because once involved, the results are difficult to predict. There are many principles in life that are not simply stated: buses can run every 5 minutes, subways can run every 5 minutes, and your happy marriage may only have one bus in a lifetime. Therefore, cherishing marriage, controlling emotions, and being a person with a sense of family responsibility are the most basic responsibilities bestowed by marriage.
