Post Date December, 03 2023
Playing coquettish is really not a woman's patent. In today's increasingly fierce competition and increasing pressure, men also have a vulnerable side, and they also need comfort. If one day, when you are too tired to act coquettishly in front of your wife or girlfriend, do not suppress this impulse, as it is beneficial to health; Women should not say that he is not like a man, because you are the most suitable person to meet his spiritual needs in this regard.
Men play coquettish more often than their wives
According to a survey, there is an interesting phenomenon in 1400 families from different countries, races, educational backgrounds, age characteristics, and income levels: Men even act coquettishly at home more frequently than their wives.
"Men also act coquettishly, which sounds very new, but this is indeed a drama staged in life, but most of it is only staged in the" backstage ".". Life is a big stage. At the front desk, men play their respective social roles; In the backstage, the performance of the characters may be difficult for the average audience to see. Most people are used to positioning men in the image of the previous stage, while ignoring the background image that men originally have.
In the division of gender roles, women themselves have maternal characteristics, which is one of the reasons why men are more likely to act coquettishly in front of women in private. Another reason is the difference in social roles. Men have always played a strong social image, but also bear more psychological pressure. Men have been taught from an early age that if you are a man, he should be strong. In the family, men are often seen as the center of gravity, and they should use strong arms to shield their families from the wind and rain. However, men are not cast in iron. They are just like women in their natural nature, and they all have a fragile side and spiritual pain that needs to be comforted. Moreover, men have many fewer opportunities to vent their anger when they play strong roles in society than women. So when a man returns home, he exposes his vulnerability to his "psychological mother" for spiritual comfort.
Career is the capital for men to play coquettish
Psychologists believe that, in general, career is just an excuse for men, but this does not mean that men who act coquettishly do not have a career. On the contrary, career is often the capital on which they rely to act coquettishly. Its manifestations include monetary capital and image capital. Currency is a universal form of expression, while image is a symbol of status. At the beginning of a career, it often requires some external monetary symbols to adorn it, such as high-end brand suits, Rolex gold watches, thick gold bracelets or necklaces. However, when capital accumulation enters the substantive stage, they will suddenly realize the vulgarity of this form of expression, and feel ashamed of it. Afterwards, they will dress casually like real big bosses, concealing their rising status with loose and comfortable mid range casual clothes.
When no one is around, looking back on the years that have passed, they feel a sense of loss and gain, and their fear of impending death gradually rises to an anxiety that often leads to endocrine disorders. At this time, they will act like children, using begging eyes to pamper their beloved woman. However, some wives believe that this is an embarrassment that their husband cannot face after committing a wrongdoing, leading to a deadlock in the marital relationship.
Playing coquettish is not a man's killer
Only by mastering the diverse ways in which a husband acts as a spoiled child can he truly understand his psychological needs. When the husband is silent in front of you, when his tears suddenly fall, when he is in extreme pain, when he wants to watch TV next to you... it is important to understand his inner needs in a timely manner.
Experts believe that shedding tears is not a killer tactic for pampering men. Although this tactic is effective for women, it is not easy for them to use. But this does not prevent them from telling their tearful stories, which of course mean suffering. For a responsible man, when playing coquettish, he can list many responsibilities, including everything for his family, wife, daughter, parents, country, and career. Let a woman understand the tremendous pressure he carries, thereby creating a sense of "cherishing love and cherishing jade".
In short, men in real life need a garden for emotional expression while working hard to manage their families and careers. "At this time, a wife must open her heart to accept her husband's" coquetry ", which can effectively help her husband relieve pressure while harmonizing their feelings.".
