Post Date December, 02 2023
I'm afraid to go home
Liu Chun, who has been laid off for two years, became a driver in a transportation company after studying at a driving school. From the day he got employed again, he has been driving on the highway all day.
At this time, he was driving on National Highway 205, and it was midnight. A burst of fatigue induced drowsiness, and he gave a rousing sound. The sense of safety prompted him to get excited again
This day he will spend the night at the inn on the road again.
The inn in the small town was cold and quiet, and Liu Chun, lying on a hard board bed, didn't feel sleepy. At this moment, he thought of home, his wife and children... Generally speaking, home is the warmest, but Liu Chun was afraid to go home, only because every time he dragged his tired body into the door, his wife would greet him with incessant chatter and resentment:
"You see, other people's men have the right to have money, and their wives and children enjoy all the blessings. I'm lucky. When a man goes out, my heart is always hanging in my mouth, afraid of a traffic accident. I managed to hope you back home, but I couldn't even get a warm night's sleep. You fell on the bed like a dead pig, and then ran away the next day. You said, what's the difference between being a widower and being a widow? What's the use of having a man like you?" Liu Chun had a hard time arguing, who said he was incompetent? Bear it! He knows well that being a man, especially a middle-aged man, is not easy.
What Liu Chun is thinking about now is making money, earning hard-earned money, living frugally outside, and handing over the entire salary to his wife by the end of the month to reduce guilt. Anyway, Liu Chun loves his family.
My wife regrets marrying me
To say that as a scientific and technological personnel, if they catch up with this good era and do not fling off their shoulders and do a big job, they are really sorry to the society, as well as themselves. In this spirit, after obtaining his doctoral degree (he was only 29 years old that year), despite his wife's dissuasion, Li Ping gave up the high-paying employment of a foreign company and went to a research institute that was desperately poor.
Li Ping's wife, Sun Fei, was the school flower in the university at that time, and Li Ping won Sun Fei's favor as a "talent". Nowadays, Sun Fei, who dreams of living a comfortable life, can't help regretting his disappointment and often pokes Li Ping in the back of the head hard, saying, "You're such a waste! You don't leave with so many ways to make money, and if you have the opportunity to go abroad, you won't seize it. Humph... I really regret marrying you. If it weren't for the sake of the children..."
Slowly, Li Ping began to doubt his wife's love. What does she really love me for? Is it a person, a feeling, a talent, or her personal vision? Or is this a common disease among women? Li Ping really doesn't know what will happen to his wife or this small family if this goes on. However, he firmly believes that one day he will achieve success in the field of scientific research. Turning his research results into productivity is the best reward for his wife.
Li Ping has a wife in his heart, and more importantly, his career.
Don't put any more pressure on it, okay?
Jiang Feng, who was over half a century old, became a company manager with heavy tasks. In the past, Jiang Feng was responsible for tutoring his son in high school at home, but now he is too busy to attend. He had to discuss with his wife and wanted to give her the task of "tutoring". "But his wife disagreed and said, 'You're trying to tie me down, and you can spend your spare time with clients and girls. Humph, don't take me for granted!'"
Soon after, Jiang Feng developed anxiety disorder and was always worried that the enterprise would be brought down by him. He was worried all day. On the one hand, he was worried that one day, more than 100 employees would come to ask for food from him, and on the other hand, he was worried that without his full assistance, the child would not be able to go to college. He lost all confidence in the future. At work, he fidgeted about his family; At home, he tossed and turned about his work. His wife not only doesn't think for him, but also often taunts him. "He finally fell ill, and his illness was not mild. He suffered from either anterior heartburn, backache, tenderness in the liver region, or even stomach bloating and diarrhea for several days... The doctor made a series of questions indicating that it was difficult to diagnose.".
Due to helplessness, Jiang Feng had to resign from both positions, hand over the enterprise to his superiors, and pass on his only son to his wife. The middle-aged man confidently asked himself, "Are you willing to fall ill?"? no He doesn't want to be sick, but he has no way out and can't help it. Nowadays, Jiang Feng no longer worries about public affairs or personal affairs, but just wants to live a good life.
It is not difficult to see that Jiang Feng was overwhelmed by psychological pressure!
Psychological experts believe that the 21st century is a century of rapid development, as well as a period of high incidence of human psychological conflicts and mental diseases. Is this an inevitable trend of social development or an artificial trend? Experts pointed out that it can be said that each account for half.
The oldest moral civilization in China is embodied in the relationship between husband and wife, which is nothing more than mutual tolerance and consideration in today's terms.
Men are sometimes more vulnerable than women. Who cares about men? Apart from society, I'm afraid it's just women. A woman, as a wife and mistress of a family, is the strongest and most reliable harbor for her husband. How strong a man is, he also needs the care and comfort of the women around him. We can't help but admit that many women now have too many demands on men, and the expansion of women's "hedonism" has caused considerable interference and pressure on men's "realism". Should we also let the men around us relax? It's not difficult for women to do this. The key is to recognize the problem, and it's a question of transcending oneself. Once you put yourself in the other person's shoes, women will understand that the burden of men is not light!
There are many reasons for psychological conflict, but family interpersonal relationships are the first, so psychological maintenance should start from within the family. Husbands and wives should respect and love each other, and husbands should not be chauvinistic, but should respect and cherish their wives; Wives should also respect and be considerate of their husbands. A considerate wife can make the husband feel warm and lovely in the family, and can add sentimentality to a warm home.
