Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is not the end of a happy marriage, but the beginning of a bumpy road! Don't doubt that when couples really live together, all kinds of trivial annoyances and troubles come out at once. Therefore, don't take marriage as a smooth road. In fact, it is a rough road. So, what stone did you stumble over?
The first stone: the bondage of ideas
Although the times have changed, many people are still shackled by outdated ideas. After marriage, the husband and wife live in harmony, but one party always thinks that he/she can't have close contact with the opposite sex, can't have friends of the opposite sex, and can't have any opposite sex in his/her mind except me! Who can bear such a partner? In the long run, what you give your lover is not affection and protection, but heavy shackles. Finally, you can only make him/her leave you.
The second stone: conflict of interests
If the interests and habits of the couple are exactly the same, they are naturally the happiest couple in the world. However, most of this heterosexual relationship has developed into confidants of beauties and beauties. In real life, couples basically have conflicts of interests, such as women like watching soap operas and men like watching ball games; Women should be vegetarian, men should eat meat and so on. If one side can make concessions, how can the world be peaceful; If they conflict with each other, the result is only one shot and two scattered.
The third stone: sexual life is not harmonious
It must be emphasized that this "stone" is the largest and heaviest! Couples who divorced because of disharmonious sexual life have accounted for more than 50% of the divorce group! Such terrible data should ring an alarm bell for you? Friends who think they have strong sexual ability and have a long time should stop using the same posture and skills, and learn new tricks quickly; If you feel that you are incompetent or have been warned by your lover, think about remedial measures immediately and remember to be safe and healthy!
If a woman has problems in her sex life, she must learn to regulate herself, even if she goes to the hospital to see a doctor. Men can't be impatient. As the saying goes, impatient can't eat hot tofu. You must be patient with your lover, guide her and help her out of the barriers of sexual life, so that you can have sex!
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
