Post Date December, 02 2023
How broad is a man's generosity? Can you tolerate his wife's cheating? Happiness is created by two people. It is worth discussing whether marriage is worth paying and accepting
It is often seen that women's tolerance is happiness, and tolerant women are the most beautiful. What kind of women should learn to "play dumb", and what kind of "how long one eye is before marriage, and how close one eye is after marriage". The single-minded man of love is really a national treasure.
Or this man is born with the right to make mistakes. As a woman who loves him, only by learning to tolerate and accept, can he get the ultimate love of a man. It seems that the idea that men are superior to women has not been changed.
The recent TV series "Marvin's War" made me understand this truth. Marvin's wife is very nagging. They have been married for more than ten years, and they divorced because they felt that their marriage had no love.
After the divorce, the woman soon fell in love with the male colleague who was also divorced in the company, and soon married. However, after the divorce, Marvin and his wife did not live separately, probably because of the lingering love, but also because of the frustration of high housing prices in the prosperous metropolis. After the woman married, she took her stephusband to live in the same house with her ex-husband, so she performed a marriage drama of one woman and two husbands.
Finally, after Marvin was in love with a rich woman and planned to marry him and go abroad, Marvin's ex-wife had a lot of conflicts with her stephusband. After the quarrel, she found out that her ex-husband was still good to her, and she still loved her ex-husband.
However, after agreeing to divorce with his stephusband for the reason of incompatibility, Marvin unexpectedly left her rich girlfriend and took two common sons to welcome her home. What the ending of the plot wants to tell us is that Marvin's marriage war has gone round and back to the original place.
I don't know whether there are such men in reality, but even if there are, there are very few. If Yang Xin doesn't remarry after divorce, it is normal for two people to remarry because of love or because of children, but Yang Xin remarries.
In addition, he has performed a great show of affection in front of Marvin for many times. He is extremely bitter towards Marvin. In addition, Marvin has a better woman than Yang Xin who is willing to treat him well. Is it possible for him to accept his remarried ex-wife again? It is said that good horses don't eat back grass, and this grass has been eaten by other horses. Men really don't mind at all? Can two people's feelings go back to the past?
I joked with my colleagues that this play must be shot by a woman, because it is too idealistic. It is difficult for women to accept a man who has cheated. This cheating is like a broken mirror. What's more, in this society where male power is still extremely serious, men's loyalty can't be maintained at all, let alone love a woman who has hurt herself as always?
So this TV play is unrealistic, at least too idealistic. However, the TV drama also reminds us that women's status has indeed improved, and they are no longer weak in the relationship between men and women. Isn't it said that women take advantage of men and women living together?
In terms of money and body, most men and women live together with less money, while women also get pleasure physically.
So now, we can't just ask women to be tolerant. Men also need to be tolerant and generous. Happiness is created by two people together, as long as it is worth paying and accepting.
Women have higher and higher standards of happiness and higher requirements for men. Men have to understand romance when they are rich, do housework when they are romantic, do housework without complaint when they are able to do it, and tolerate women's small temper, even like Marvin.
Accept the wife who once wore a green hat for herself. In this way, there will be a lot less family war, but how many men can do it? I think this is really a big problem.
