Post Date December, 03 2023
All kinds of derailment cases are full of people's vision and hearing, and make those who have not enough concentration wander repeatedly between believing in love and not believing in love. While some people lament sadly that today's men and women who do not cheat are wonderful, there are still many people who stick to the happiness of marriage. So, what kind of married men and women have the lowest probability of cheating?
When it comes to infidelity, it is actually caused by people. As long as both husband and wife can stick to their bottom line of loyalty, the third party in marriage has no chance to intervene.
1、 Married men and women with strong self-control have a low probability of cheating.
Tradition comes from temptation and being tempted.
In terms of marriageable age, people usually find a suitable object for marriage and enter into marriage. The person who married himself may not be the person he wanted to marry, but at that time, it was really the most suitable for him.
After marriage, two people who grew up in different families should live together, during which there will be a certain run-in period. In addition, one side of the couple is not the shadow of the other, so there will always be disagreement on how to behave. At this time, we need absolute trust, tolerance, understanding, acceptance and dedication.
Quarrels also exist more or less along with the progress of life.
At this time, people will have doubts about marriage with sadness and lack of tacit understanding on the cooperation between husband and wife, and then ask themselves repeatedly: Is this the marriage I want?
In addition to family members, people have to face work and normal interpersonal communication. In this process, it is inevitable to meet people who understand themselves. At this time, some people regard people who understand themselves as "true lovers", while others regard people who understand themselves as "emotional trash cans".
When people are sad, they like to think nonsense and do some extreme things. In the face of people who have good feelings outside marriage, they need strong self-control to resist external temptation.
Sometimes there is a fine line between cheating and maintaining marital loyalty. If you carry it through and smoothly pass the marriage run-in period, you will definitely get a happy marriage.
2、 Married men and women with a strong sense of honor and disgrace have a low probability of cheating.
At the stage of love, you can ask your partner what he thinks about cheating?
When your lover says this, all the men and women who cheat after marriage are brainwashed. Such lovers can be considered; When your lover says this, cheating is no big deal, as long as you safeguard the integrity of your marriage, such lovers will not be considered.
Some people, especially men, will regard finding a mistress as a manifestation of men's charm. Some people will find it very shameful to betray marriage. Different understanding of extramarital affairs will produce different results.
For this reason, when selecting a lover, we should see if the other party has justice and correct values, especially if the cheating behavior during love is never forgiven.
Those who don't have a strong sense of honor and disgrace are easy to become a wallflower. As long as there are people who cheat around, they either can't resist the temptation or follow the example of others, and after the cheating, they say rightfully that I just play with each other and don't pay real feelings.
There is such a phenomenon that the tragedy caused by extramarital affairs every day does not make some people wake up and be loyal to marriage, but makes some people start to covet extramarital affairs.
Keep a strong view of honor and disgrace and stick to the loyalty of marriage. After a long time, you will find that the best way to manage marriage is to stick to it.
3、 Married men and women with particularly healthy views on marriage and love have a low probability of cheating.
What is a healthy concept of marriage and love? Having a sense of responsibility after marriage, being unselfish in the process of implementing love, and knowing how to take care of family members' feelings.
Some people will regard the quarrel between husband and wife as the lubricating oil for their common progress; Some people will regard the quarrel between husband and wife as the other party's intentional fault finding and fighting against themselves.
Some people will comfort their lovers when their career is not going well, and encourage and help them to get out of the difficulties as soon as possible; Some people will scold each other when their lover's career is not going well, and dislike them.
Some people feel guilty to their families for their occasional late return and scramble to do housework after returning home; Some people will regard staying home at night or not doing housework after returning home as pursuing the freedom they want.
People's different views, understandings and behaviors on marriage determine whether marriage is happy or not.
Happiness in marriage is not a matter of one person sticking to it and another person spending money. For this reason, it is possible to continue happiness to the end only if the couple's marriage view is healthy enough.
To put an end to extramarital affairs, we need: strong self-control, correct concept of honor and disgrace, and healthy concept of love and marriage, can you?
