The gentleness of a woman stems from the cultivation of her character. A well cultivated woman's gentle expression also makes her feel more intimate. Therefore, women should especially avoid anger and madness, pay attention to the beauty of language, thoroughly overcome those bad temperaments that affect the expression of gentleness, and let the gentle flowers bloom for the charm of women.
The first is that intelligent women who spit lotus flowers and can speak are lovable.
1. Touching the heart with sound
2. Women who know how to praise are most popular.
3. Praising others should be appropriate. Everyone hopes that their ideas and preferences can be supported, especially if Wang Mingming is wrong, or even has his own small shortcomings, which can be understood and recognized by others.
4. Praise cannot ignore "small". No matter who you are, your shining points (even if they are very small) will be moistened by perceptive praise and give you a true sense of survival.
5. Criticism stresses art, and good medicine is not bitter. "A good medicine that is not bitter to the mouth is a criticism that is successful.".
6. The magic use of "sugar coated bullets" is based on the principle of sincere and moderate understanding of the other party. Do not use euphemistic hints to clarify the responsibilities of the other party. The crux of many communication errors lies in unclear roles. 7. Persuade people with reason and move people with emotion.
The second is "No leakage, no leakage, the speaking skills of intelligent women"
1. Speak well
2. "It's not difficult to do things by looking at what you say"
3. Look at the character of the other person and follow their inclinations.
4. Different from person to person, speaking can win favor
5. Giving someone a good name also paves the way for them
6. Learn to wear high hats for others
7. High hats cannot be worn by oneself
8. After thinking twice, using harsh language to slander people and things you don't know will only reveal your shallowness and substance.
9. The Secret of Language on the Wine Table
10. Humor, a woman's super weapon.
Article 3: How to Grasp the Proper Speech of Smart Women
1. Leave room for yourself and don't talk too strongly
2. Step down on the other side: Be careful not to show off and use humorous language as a step.
3. Talk more about the strengths of others and less about their weaknesses
4. Say three minutes, until the point is reached
5. There are taboos in speaking. Don't say anything you shouldn't say
Article 4: Clever Words: How Smart Women Get Rid of Social Awkwardness
1. Know when to say what to say, and be responsible for what you say
2. Look at the identity of the object, assess the situation before speaking; Depending on the cultural quality of the object, sometimes shooting arrows can be self fulfilling. "When entering a temple to burn incense, it is up to the gods, and when doing things and speaking, it is up to the people.".
Rule 5: Use softness to overcome hardness. Smart women should learn to use their natural capital
1. Read extensively and enrich yourself
2. Shaping a woman's charming personality
3. Those who show weakness are brave
4. Keep a low profile, everyone has the nature to sympathize with the weak
5. To become an attractive woman, personal charm is a magical means of conducting oneself, which can enable a man with ordinary talents to achieve career success and enable a woman with ordinary appearance to glow with moving brilliance.
6. Soft words are more powerful. 7. Only women who can cry have "food" to eat
Article 6: Eyes and Eyes Passionate, Smart Women Should Learn to Use Body Language
1. Smiling can bring people closer
2. Use listening to gain favorable feelings from the other party
3. Understand the skills of listening
4. The Role of Eyes in Communication
5. Shyness, the most exciting expression
6. Physical endowment, showing a woman's elegant temperament
Article 7: Charming temperament, smart women should cultivate social capital
1. Only by being good at forgiving others can the soul be freed
2. Being a Temperament Woman: Dress Up, Taste Yourself, and Enrich Yourself
3. Inner beauty is always more important than outer beauty
4. Confident women are the most beautiful
5. Elegance is a unique fragrance for women
6. Make yourself a trustworthy person: understand others, pay attention to some aspects of life, keep promises, and clarify expectations; Be sincere and honest, have the courage to apologize, and love selflessly.
7. Enthusiasm towards others should be measured. Passion offside is as harmful as not being enthusiastic enough. Passion offside can be seen as a sign of impoliteness and ill breeding.
8. "Gentleness is the great power of women, and the loss of tenderness by women is known as" the greatest sorrow of women. "
Article 8: Delicate in all aspects, smart women need to master social skills
1. Trusting Your Husband Makes Your Family Happier
2. Love your wife and make your marriage more beautiful
3. Find reasons for your boss to appreciate
4. Don't hold yourself too high
5. Tips for getting along well with colleagues:
(1) It is best to state your opinions directly to your boss
(2) Give up profits and look to the future
(3) Think for others
6. Love makes you popular
7. Helping others is helping oneself
8. Be good at listening to your own advice
9. Friendship lasts only when you get along well with friends.
Article 9: Perfect and Impeccable, Smart Women Should Step Out of Misunderstanding
1. How can one take advantage of others who dare not lose
2. Walking out of the unbalanced psychological misunderstanding
3. Lose jealousy and win trust
4. Suspicion, early abandonment
5. Don't steal the limelight from your boss
6. Don't point out others' mistakes in public
7. Always remember that the other person is only a part
8. Friendships based on money are unreliable
9. Don't neglect friends because of family
Article 10: Being weak without being weak, smart women should adhere to the principles of life
1. Beware of hidden arrows and handle colleague relationships well
2. Don't mix right with wrong, in case you're being shot
3. Playing coquettish is a woman's unique secret weapon. A woman who is moody and often gets angry like a bullfighter is frightening.
Article 11: I'm not teaching you to cheat! A wise woman needs to know how to behave wisely.
1. Keep an appropriate distance from colleagues, do not put on airs, do not engage in covert operations, and let colleagues shoulder the honor and blame themselves.
2. Embrace Your Opponents, Let You Play in the Workplace
3. Increase human debt and establish good relationships
4. Establishing good relationships with different superiors, pandering to their interests, and courting others is not only a means of becoming an official, but also a superb means of becoming a person
5. Give men more personal space. 6. The way to be a husband and wife, attachment without dependence. 7. Apply more honey to your tongue, and your mother-in-law is not picky.
Article 12: Learn to choose and give up. Smart women should balance their attitude towards life
1. Take a step back and open the sky.
2. Don't lose your life for work