Post Date December, 03 2023
Once I chatted with a male friend and casually asked, 'If you have a daughter, do you want her to be smart or beautiful?'? The boy said without thinking: Of course it's beautiful! I was suddenly shocked: why did you choose to be beautiful? He said, What about you?
Of course I choose to be smart! I continued: I like smart girls, so they can study, have brains, and have abilities, without worrying about their future. Isn't that great? The male friend smiled and said, 'Don't be silly!'! As long as a girl is beautiful, she is not afraid that no one wants her, and getting married is the most important thing. Being smart or not doesn't matter at all! what? Is it okay for difficult girls to be beautiful? Is everything else unimportant? I can't believe it. Of course being smart and beautiful is great, but if you want to choose, I will choose to be beautiful. If you don't believe me, ask other boys
So I casually asked many girls and boys which is more important, whether women are beautiful or smart. Most of the women answered, 'Smart is more important.'. Most boys answer: Beauty is more important.
Previously, I saw a column by Xia Yunfen, a financial expert in Brand's brand magazine, writing about selectivity. She wrote about women being rich and sexy. Which one would you choose?, Most girls choose sex appeal, while those with money are afraid that their love for money may be mistaken for reality.
But if a woman loves money and can love her own money and work hard to make money, it doesn't necessarily mean she loves men's money, it's just superficial! Only women who love their own money will strive to improve, work hard, and start businesses to become successful women. Therefore, women love money just like men do. They all love money to make themselves better and more successful, and to enable their loved ones and family to live a more comfortable life. Therefore, loving money is not superficial at all!
It seems that many people still choose appearance when it comes to choosing between appearance and money. But I believe that when asked such a question to a man, it should also be that sexiness will receive the majority of support
When faced with multiple-choice questions, especially multiple-choice questions, we express the order in which our values prioritize women's conditions.
However, wealthy women can strive to become sexy, and being sexy requires financial support, such as makeup, dressing up, buying maintenance products, buying beautiful underwear, learning dance, engaging in yoga, and doing facial spas. Women cannot maintain a sexy appearance without money. Even maintaining inner beauty requires further education, learning, buying books, traveling, and cultivating interests They all require financial support.
Rich women can also rely on their own efforts to become more beautiful, sexy, and charming, becoming the acquired beauty, and maintaining their physical appearance after the age of 30. I strongly agree that women's beauty requires money.
But women who are only sexy but have no money often need to make money by being sexy.
People who rely on their appearance to earn a living, even if they hold onto a golden rice bowl, cannot guarantee that they will not be replaced by youthful bodies in the coming years. There will always be more beautiful and sexy women than you. If a man loves you just because you are sexy, wouldn't that be the most risky investment in history? The saying goes that those who use color to act on others, their color fades and they love relaxation. If they love relaxation, they will be grateful!
Of course, appearance is important, unless you are blind, you cannot deny it. I certainly agree that women should love beauty and strive for it. But beauty should not only be your primary value, but also your added value. This way, you won't become a woman who has no value except for her appearance. Isn't it sad that when you get old and ugly, you have no value and are waiting to be eliminated?
But the choice between smart and beautiful, I will definitely choose smart. Similarly, smart women can have confidence, ability, ability to survive in society, and can withstand the test of time. And even if she loves the wrong person, she can still leave intelligently and elegantly, choosing a partner that makes her happier.
A beautiful but not smart woman may be very pleasing. You can ask those boys who like to be beautiful but not smart, and they only want a girlfriend who is easy to handle and manipulate (I don't want to say it's easy to deceive). A beautiful and not smart girl is prone to meeting a man who only likes her appearance. Perhaps on the surface, she looks good and spicy, and with good luck, she can still satisfy the desires of a noble woman. However, a woman who can only make a living by relying on her appearance, Actually, it's even harder than relying on women on their own. The biggest risk is that your life is difficult to control in your own hands.
If the relationship between men and women is like the human flesh market, the strong market will always be the buyer's market (either the men's market or the women's market), you must not let yourself become a weak seller on the human flesh market. When all you have is beautiful and sexy, with a short shelf life, you have to constantly lower prices and force sales, but don't forget that this market will always have more delicious and juicy meat than you to restock at any time. Are you going to pick someone or be picked?
Beauty is indeed a passport. But after the first impression, you still rely on your own strength.
If possible, we certainly hope to have intelligence, beauty, money, and sexiness at the same time
However, a man who loves and respects you absolutely hopes that you have brains and abilities in addition to your appearance, rather than satisfying his lack of confidence with your foolishness, satisfying his desire for control with your poverty and financial independence, and satisfying his affirmation of himself with the pursuit of women's ignorance.
Actually, from childhood to adulthood, I have never understood why girls like boys to scold her: stupid! Instead of affirming her: You're great! Hello, smart! However, perhaps girls are also accustomed to being scolded for being stupid as sweet and fun, while boys are also accustomed to scolding their girlfriends for being stupid represents that I am strong enough to protect you. To be honest, every time boys scold me for being stupid, I didn't really think they were smarter than me in my heart, but they would cooperate and act silly. Men don't understand, many women are not stupid, but know how to pretend to be stupid.
But I hope men these days don't always express their love by calling fools fun. And they can seriously appreciate and affirm their girlfriend's strengths and achievements.
Appearance and inner beauty are equally important, beauty and intelligence are equally important. Being a smart beauty will give you more choices in your life. Being smart is not just about being clever, but about being kind and wise. Only a wise woman can withstand the test of time.
Money is very important, it refers to economic independence and having the dominant position in one's own finances in order to make decisions for one's own life.
Sexy is important, not only for the body, but also for the brain. Sexy should not just provoke vulgar levels such as desire, but become an attractive woman. To be a beautiful woman, not only do men love you, but they also need to make women love you the same, which is the most successful beauty. No matter what you choose, the most important thing is to be a woman with the right to choose. From a long-term perspective, smart and wealthy women have more choices than beautiful and sexy women. I hope your life is not a single choice question, but one that can check all of the above!
