Post Date April, 15 2023
When you are still pestering with men, men are always used to saying "I want to calm down alone". Even if they don't say it, their behavior will tell you that they just want to take it alone. A woman will never understand whether the so-called "calm" means he wants to end the relationship between you. Don't say goodbye, just calm down. How long will he calm down?
Tell you: first aid measures for sudden cardiac arrest. Women always feel that men have something to say but don't say it. Men usually don't directly tell women how long they need to calm down. Women can only passively wait for the news from men. For women, this period of calm is long and painful. In fact, a wise woman will realize that a man suddenly wants to calm down. That is to say, his love for her is too little to tolerate her. He wants to end, but he has no courage to speak, so he needs some time to sort out his emotions.
But many times, "calm" is synonymous with "break up". People who have been in love several times are not stupid enough to understand the meaning of calm. Although we understand, it is still difficult for us to accept that the other party suddenly said, "Shall we calm down?" No matter how many times we have heard similar words, we still hope that this time is an exception. This time, "calm down" has good results.
The reality is that no matter how many lessons we have learned, we still don't know how long men should calm down. We will still ask: "Why should you be calm? How long should you be calm?" Fortunately, you are bound by marriage. Marriage is sometimes a bad thing and hinders the pace of life, but it is a good thing when you refuse to lose. Few couples will divorce for an argument, but most divorced couples are convinced that they have an affair after an argument.
If a man wants to calm down, let him stay quiet, because they are animals who refuse to be comforted. But you should let him know that you can let him calm down alone, but he should also remember the way home. Psychologist: It is not easy to achieve efficient communication between Zhou Ye and his wife. It is normal to have poor communication after problems occur.
However, this phenomenon cannot last too long. We must gradually influence each other through learning and self-change. It is suggested to read relevant books, such as "Men from Mars, Women from Mercury", "Five Languages of Love" and "Meet the Unknown Self". If you want to improve the situation, you must learn how to communicate and manage love. It is better to learn at once than to be confused and suspicious. This is the only way to help you.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
