Expressing love to the person you love is not just a man's right, as a woman, you can also do it beautifully. But timing is the most important thing. If the "appearance" is not timely enough, it may be a waste of emotion; If the "appearance rate" is too high, it makes him accustomed and not surprised. When to take the initiative, you need to be smart and adapt accordingly.
1. When he miscalculated
Hansheng faced a major choice: to turn left and have a smooth career path, and to endure another year and a half to reach the official position; Turning to the right, friends summon to join and choose one department vice president. The annual salary and risk are equally high. The dilemma of leaving and leaving is bewildered. Yeats looked at her husband's difficulties, but did not provide him with "guidance". With a calm and calm demeanor, she expressed her greatest trust and understanding in her husband, making him feel that "choice" itself is a form of life. It was very late that day, and Hanson couldn't sleep. He got up and went to the balcony to smoke. Yeats brought him tea and clothing, and Hansheng asked, "If you are an official, you may lack confidence; if you are in business, you may lose and become a poor person.
Which of these two do you want Yeats said, "What you do is not important, it's about yourself. Anyway, I support you." The next day, when I woke up, I found Yeats's message on the breakfast table, along with milk and bread: first, think about the good side. Secondly, learn to give up. Hansen eventually went to sea and became a pioneer in the field of environmentally friendly building materials two years later. But his heart, illuminated by Yeats, always remembered that when he was at a crossroads in life, it was his wife who turned on the traffic lights of action and stop for him.
Comment: In the dilemma of men being ambiguous, indecisive, and in a dilemma, women's encouragement has a powerful effect. In fact, Hanson had already made his own decision subconsciously, but he needed to repeatedly doubt it to verify its correctness, and receiving his wife Yeats' guidance undoubtedly gave him a powerful and amplified energy.
2. When he was' speechless'
Sun Juntao has a habit of boasting and can even fabricate news about having dinner with Clinton the day before yesterday. No matter whether it's true or not, everyone knows he's just for fun, and no one will take him seriously.
One day when his mother-in-law arrived, Sun Juntao repeated his old trick of using a fake necklace to make the old lady happy, saying it was real gold. Unexpectedly, he dropped the small ticket on the ground, and the old lady picked it up with sharp eyes. She was happy and said, "This kid has been teasing me since childhood, and now he's still making up lies?" Sun Juntao felt uneasy, but Ruth praised her and said, "Where, he doesn't tell lies, doesn't he make you happy
Comment: Men's big talk is always a vain display of great achievements, but when "aphasia becomes habitual", it is precisely when a woman's clever hand is caught. The key is that Ruth never exposes it, allowing him to climb up the pole to the top, and then hand over a soft ladder if he can't get down. It not only saves face, but also hits the nail on the head, and then let him obediently fall to the ground.
3. When he 'missed'
Jin Junzhi is fortunate to have married a good wife, and Nini's generosity, beauty, and talent have impressed him even more as his married life unfolds. Whether at home or outside, Nini is skilled in everything.
While Jin Jun was feeling relaxed, he also discovered that Nini would always seize the opportunity to showcase more surprising strengths or strengths. Jin Junzhi has always boasted of being a computer expert. These days, he is designing a complex personal homepage, and halfway through it, he is quite proud to show off to Nini. Nini praised him a few words, but casually improved several anime effects, clearly surpassing his level. Jin Junshi was stunned and said, "When did you still have this skill
Comment: Nini's beauty lies in constantly surprising her husband. She doesn't win by being aggressive or overwhelming, and handles the heat very well. This is to add icing on the cake and make him understand that I am actually better than you expected.
4. When he 'distorts'
Hong has had a highly inflated fermentation period, which further leads to arrogance and arrogance. To take a step back is to be arrogant, as he may feel overly good about himself. Due to several academic papers appearing in authoritative journals and several professional title promotions, he became somewhat arrogant and complacent. Liu Xin is a cautious wife who cannot help but worry about her husband's arrogance.
Once, she and her husband were cooking together in the kitchen, shouting loudly and daring not to kill fish. Her husband walked over and said, "Get out of the way, there's someone bigger than me?" Liu Xin pretended to be scared and said, "This fish is really fierce and difficult to handle
Hong was also the first time he had killed a fish. He thought it was a piece of cake, but he couldn't catch it at first. When he finally struck the knife, his hands trembled, and the fish that had been opened were abandoned and did not die, jumping up and down. Hung was in a state of confusion, his hands and body splattered with dirty blood, and he threw down his kitchen knife to escape from the scene. After a series of twists and turns, Liu Xin scraped the scales of the fish and said, "Husband, there's something else you can't handle?" Hong also pretended to be arrogant and said, "Hmm, it's amazing, there's something even more amazing than it." Liu Xin replied meaningfully, "Yes, no one should be too arrogant. There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people." Hong was stunned and didn't speak for a while, and the process of killing fish became a living life advice
Comment: In ancient times, there was a drama about "killing a dog to persuade a husband", and Liu Xin only naturally warned her husband to restrain his sharp edges. Men are prone to deformation and distortion at their peak, and the so-called complacency and forgetfulness lead to future troubles. Liu Xinzhi's fish killing move may seem thrilling, but in fact, it is intertwined and highly targeted. From the "bloody" lesson to the end, he does not worry about his husband's "never forget".
5. When he was' heartbroken '
Anjie is a business executive of a company, and his passion for order production is no less intense than his pursuit of Lisa's focus and persistence back then. Lisa said that career is his "second love" and his second emotional attachment. Moreover, his performance has always been impressive, and his income and position are constantly increasing. But there is a slight risk of laziness in taking care of the family. This is not so much a weakness as a embellishment of success. However, during this period, Anjie felt "heartbroken" - first due to the client's cancellation of the contract, then due to several consecutive business failures, coupled with being temporarily stranded in the company's personnel changes, a strong sense of frustration made Anjie feel low. Lisa arranged a birthday dinner, two short trips, and went to the sports center with friends for lively tennis and swimming competitions... In silence, Lisa showed a greater dependence on her husband in life and admiration for his abilities. Her husband was quietly captured by the happiness she created. Self reflection said, "Family and body are equally worthy of special attention, and I am impressed by his wife's dedication
Comment: Angel's condition is common among men, and Lisa's brilliance is a timely help in love. A disappointed husband is the most vulnerable, and the power that moves him is particularly touching. At the same time, diverting his gaze from the "broken love" and creating a sense of relief and achievement beyond pressure is also the best way to touch his weak points.
6. When he lost control
After the age of thirty, Anan gradually became tired of the peaceful days, and his temper grew stronger day by day. He became impatient with everything he saw. I accompanied my wife Hui to a concert this time, and when I went out, I muttered to a street lamp in the community that didn't light up. I thought the driver was playing loud music while playing... I was angry and angry all night, and the evil fire ignited. It is said that Hui's good mood has been destroyed, but she showed the patience to coax the child and accompanied him to "coax". Her husband said one thing, and she added two more. Until she entered the house, Anan complained that the lighting switch at the door was installed too high, while Hui pretended to be "angry" and said that she would have someone smash the wall tomorrow to dismantle and rewind the line. The husband was stunned and asked, "Are you so unhappy?" Hui smiled and said, "Whatever you are unhappy about is what I want to overthrow." The husband understood that the wife is just treating others with her own way. After this concert, Anan reminded her to pay attention and control herself.
Comment: Men can sometimes be stubborn like children, and Anan is just "playing coquettish". Hui accompanies him with tolerance to play family "angry" games, creating a stepping stone for her husband's "out of control". Just like a speeding car running horizontally, she found a smooth transition gearbox, and her husband's anger gradually extinguished.