Post Date April, 15 2023
1. One year before marriage and two years after marriage
Before and after marriage, both men and women are at a stage of relatively large emotional fluctuations. Nowadays, most young couples are only children, who grew up spoiled by their parents. Personality is more self centered, and most people don't think about each other. They often argue over trivial matters.
The reason is that neither side understands accommodation. Two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a male, you should be generous and dare to say "I'm sorry" first when there is a conflict, to avoid exacerbating the conflict, which has a positive effect on your own health and the feelings of both parties. The woman should also understand the pressure on the other party and be gentle and considerate.
2. Married for over ten years
"After 20 years of sleeping in one bed, it is inevitable that there will be some 'aesthetic fatigue'." There is a couple who have been married for 12 years and their children are in the third grade of primary school. In the first two years of marriage, the most desired thing for a husband every day is to be able to leave work early and go home with his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began a life of early departure and late return. "The woman, however, appears aged and inactive due to her lack of attention to maintenance after giving birth to a child, her figure being out of shape, and her lack of attention to facial skin care.". In the face of his wife, who is no longer in style, he feels that life is boring and he cannot bring up the "sexual" interest. Having sex more than twice a week has become less than once in half a month.
If there is any disharmony in the sexual life of a husband and wife, and their skin contact with each other becomes less and less, it is necessary to carefully create an atmosphere of love and communicate their feelings of love in a timely manner. Couples who work in the same unit are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue due to the fact that both the unit and the family are facing each other day and night. To overcome the boredom between couples, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich their sexual life and regain the feeling of love. Even if work gets tiring, men should try to help with household chores, shopping together, outings, playing ball games, watching movies, and reliving the feeling of dating. Women also need to maintain a fresh image. Frequent changes in clothing styles and attempts to use the husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to each other.
3. Menopause
After more than 30 years of ups and downs, a couple originally had a very good relationship. I don't know when they started, but their sexual life became uncoordinated. The wife found out that their husband was just playing it by ear every time, so she suspected that the man was having an improper relationship outside. She often checked his underwear and listened to the phone... In order to recover the relationship that was on the verge of breaking down, they decided to go to the hospital together for an examination. During the examination, both men and women were found to have menopausal syndrome. After treatment and strengthened communication with each other, the relationship was restored to its original state.
Both parties should learn to understand each other, respect each other, and learn more about the characteristics of each other's natural physiological changes. Respecting the interests of a loved one is the glue that enhances a couple's relationship. In the process of respecting each other and adapting to each other's interests, one gains an increase in common language and a deepening of the couple's feelings. If there is a problem, you should go to the hospital to see if it is an organic problem. If it's a psychological problem, couples can use the methods mentioned above to create a sense of freshness and relive the romantic warmth of the past.
