Post Date November, 16 2024
When do women most want to have sex? You may not be familiar with it, but the descriptions of sexual desire among the interviewed women vary.
A woman described her sexual desire in this way: sometimes she may feel the uterine peristalsis, and it's hard to believe that a man's organ is necessary to solve it. I had an impulse before my period break. Sometimes in imagination, organs of the opposite sex may appear. Before menstruation, there is a rhythmic twitching of the genitals, which may be a sensation of sexual desire.
I think the feeling of sexual desire is the feeling of wanting to have sex with a man. The physical manifestation is a lot of vaginal discharge, while the psychological manifestation is a love of excitement. For a period of time after graduating from college, my underwear was wet paired every day. I know a female doctor, and when I asked her if she was sick, she smiled. She said it's not a disease, it's caused by excessive secretion of estrogen. This situation didn't improve until I was almost 40 years old, and there was less vaginal discharge.
I think the sensation of sexual desire is like itching of the clitoris. Once when my husband and I had sex, no matter how we made it, the bottom couldn't get wet; But with this lover, there's no need to get it wet. Every time he jumps into bed naked after taking a shower, I see him like this and naturally have a desire.
I think sexual desire is a feeling of itching in the heart, physiologically speaking, it is a feeling of lower fever. Feeling a physiological impulse is a feeling of bloating in the lower abdomen. You also have this feeling when you encounter someone who is particularly cute and can move you. A woman describes the sensation of sexual desire as a feeling of crispness all over her body.
A middle-aged unmarried woman said, 'When I was young, on summer evenings, I suddenly felt a sensation of swelling all over my body, sometimes at the base of my thighs, sometimes in my armpits, which was a very uncomfortable feeling.'. Whenever this feeling comes, I have to get up and walk, or else I have to find a way to fall asleep quickly, just to avoid this feeling. This feeling is very uncomfortable after it appears. I remember when I first graduated from college, I felt like an immature chicken, and by the age of twenty four or five, I felt mature. Sometimes when I touch myself, I feel that the area where the drum should be raised is flat, and it feels good. I also hope for someone else's touch. Sometimes there is a strong physiological impulse and the body is restless and restless.
That spring, there was a primitive feeling of returning to oneself, which was appetite and sexual desire. There is an explosive feeling, especially wanting to find a man. After the desire erupted, what I thought was to restrain myself, not to harm the interests of others, and not to make public. A woman who had been seduced and lost her virginity mentioned her feelings about sexuality: Before this incident, I had no feelings about sex at all. Once, when I was helping my brother with a task, a friend of his took me to the park to do something. I didn't react at all and couldn't arouse my desire to touch anything, so I didn't succeed. Another time by train, a young soldier happened to be waiting at the train station. We were sitting in a relatively dark place, and he also had movements, but I still didn't react. So I feel that if I am not mature myself, they cannot succeed. At an early age, there is no sensation, but as one gets older (being touched by a man), one becomes soft and responsive.
A woman who lived a single life after divorce said, 'I have a special distress: in terms of sexual life, my demands are quite strong.'. Sometimes there is an unbearable feeling of restlessness. After work, I feel bored. Women have needs, and I am not willing to suppress myself. Once, I couldn't bear it. I happened to be working at a certain restaurant and found a foreign man. The way he looked at me made me understand his wishes. Normally, a good family woman should be proud, but I couldn't help it at that time, so I followed him to his room. First we chatted, then we stayed. He makes me very comfortable and satisfied. I'm not that kind of person, so I didn't ask for a penny. I feel insulted when he wants to give a gift. The next day when I woke up, I felt very guilty and blamed myself. This has happened many times.
Regarding when sexual desire is strongest, a woman said this: 2-3 days before menstruation, during menstruation (he sometimes does it during menstruation), there are 3-5 days after 8 days of menstruation.
Generally speaking, during the first week or so of a woman's ovulation period, due to an increase in the secretion of thyrotropin from the pituitary gland, women's sexual interest may increase and they are eager to have sex. However, human sexual desire is also constrained by many factors such as psychology, social culture, etc., so there are significant individual differences.
In addition to the influence of physiological period, women are most likely to have sex in the following situations:
1. I have a strong desire, a strong desire, and a relaxed mood, making it the easiest to get into the situation.
For example, the experience of an interviewee: The best time I felt was after drinking and chatting with a friend, and he took me home. It was already over five o'clock in the morning, and my younger brother was sleeping in the room. I asked him to wash his face, rest for a while, and then go back, but he hugged me and said, 'I want it!' That time we didn't dare to speak loudly in the room, afraid of waking our younger brother, but we reached a high point at the same time... that feeling was great!
2. The other party performs well, is very considerate and skilled.
One interviewee said: The best sexual experience was with my fourth boyfriend, who is a photographer, quite romantic, gentle, and cool in appearance. Being with him often brings some unexpected surprises. Having sex with him is a very beautiful thing. He always finds a comfortable place to play music and drink a little wine. The most important thing is that he pays attention to my feelings, and he is not the kind of person who goes to bed right after finishing. He will put a pool of warm water and bathe with me, and that feeling will never be forgotten for a lifetime.
3. The two blend in emotions, have romantic foreplay, and feel that they understand each other and are deeply cherished by each other.
This usually happens between lovers with strong affection, but there are also special examples, such as the experience of a interviewee: after taking a shower, he hugged me to bed, and the only thing that came to my mind was to let go of all shame and baggage, and fully enjoy the moment before me. He is tall and I am petite, but he is very compassionate and precious. He taught me to play and touch slowly, leading me step by step into the beautiful world and experiencing the enchanting realm.
4. The mood of ceremonies and celebrations, reunion after a long separation, special days, etc.
One interviewee said: The best time was when I hadn't seen him for a long time. When I met him in a restaurant, the burning desire seemed to want to eat him all over, and he was also so strong. When I 'entered', my whole body couldn't help but be happy, trembling, hugging, hoping for closer contact and friction. This time is the best, and the climax can be two or three times, especially when he skillfully guides, the climax is too beautiful.
When facing an atmosphere of excitement and adventure.
For example, cheating, concealing oneself, and being afraid of being discovered often evoke a strong sense of pleasure: the best time was in a foreign field, driving while doing, which had a great sense of liberation. The best time was during MTV, with an American who started touching my body midway through the film. I didn't refuse, but also responded. We eagerly demanded and corresponded to each other, reaching climax together in the wildest and most reckless process.
