1. After waking up from alcohol
Men often socialize, and it is inevitable that they may get drunk. The next morning after getting drunk, she had a splitting headache. When she looked around, she was alone, vomiting all over the place, and the room was in a mess... The man would surely fall into endless melancholy at this moment, but she had to take care of herself. If only there were a woman by his side at this moment, he began to miss the hangover soup his mother had cooked.
Men also have moments of vulnerability, and if you serve them with care, even a heart of stone will be melted. Therefore, it's best to take good care of a man by his side after he gets drunk, apply a towel, change clothes, and cook some rescue soup... When a man wakes up and finds you waiting by the bed, without rest all night, his heart will definitely be warm. At this moment, men are most likely to talk about marriage. They deeply realize that having a warm family and a virtuous wife is a great happiness.
2. At a hundred day banquet for friends and children
At a hundred day banquet with friends and children, when I saw a family photo taken by Le Rongrong, I realized that when I was still alone, men would have an impulse to get married immediately.
Men who are alone and lonely are the most reluctant to see others pairing up or having a family together. If you are already his girlfriend, it's better to take him to these gatherings or go to the park on weekends to see other people's family dining or playing together. Often, envious glances appear next to him, and in his ear, he speaks of scenes of envy for the happiness of others and their families. A man who is not foolish will surely understand what you mean.
This is an appropriate reminder for a man to lend a hand when he is indecisive, and he will consider his personal affairs and enter the marital cage according to your plan.
3. Drinking alone in a nightclub
Single men often go to nightclubs for leisure, on the one hand to pass the time, and on the other hand, they hope to find a romantic partner or married partner amidst the bustling lights. But in nightclubs, when a man suddenly realizes that he no longer cares about young ladies or is indifferent to beautiful women, and prefers to drink alone, he has the idea of getting married.
The colorful world of light, wine, and greenery will never last long, they are all fleeting moments. Only a marriage that truly treats and nurtures each other will last, and a happy family will exist. Men who have no intention of getting married always have a playful mindset, believing that love is a process of playing, and that having played is enough.
But after experiencing many things, the man settled down and just wanted to settle down as soon as possible, marry a wife, have children, and form a happy family. So if you have accompanied him to a nightclub, you might want to see if your boyfriend has such an abnormal reaction. If so, congratulations. If you put in another effort, you can reap the fruits of your marriage.
4. At year-end settlement
At the end of the year, everyone will do year-end settlement to see how much money they have earned and spent over the course of the year. At the end of the year when men settle accounts, they realize that they have already spent a huge amount on other unknown things and have no impression. At this point, the man really regretted finding a Chancellor of the Exchequer to manage the family's income and expenses.
If a man no longer wants to spend money recklessly, he will unconsciously save money. When he stopped purchasing non essential items and spent every penny carefully, he had the idea of getting married.
At this stage, female friends may as well ask their boyfriend to take more wedding photos or start planning the details of the wedding, so that the man can speak out about the wedding. If your boyfriend doesn't have the habit of year-end settlement, help him make a year-end summary together, list out the money you spent recklessly, and give him a push.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)