Post Date April, 15 2023
When two people fall in love, the words they say during an argument are the most hurtful because they understand each other and know which words can hit the other's heart the most, both accurately and ruthlessly.
A man is a rational animal, and he will take what a woman says when she is angry as her true words, and believe that it is the result of her rational thinking, without feeling that those words are angry.
In fact, what women say when they are angry and frustrated may sound scary, but in reality, it's not the woman's true words, it's just an emotional release.
However, what is terrifying is that during arguments, many men do not feel the woman's emotional changes at all, and even if they do, they think it's not a big deal. Women think that the more they exhaust their voices, the more men can feel their negative emotions such as dissatisfaction, grievance, and anger, and then say a few words of comfort. In fact, this is just a wishful thinking of women. Men, like evil spirits, block women's emotions, constantly proving to women that what she says is wrong, and the more they argue, the more they become sad.
So, when a woman is arguing, these words should never be said:
Are you still a man
The subtext of a woman's statement is: I need your comfort and tolerance.
But what the man heard was: she thought I was not a man, she was sarcastic and sarcastic, which greatly hurt my self-esteem.
Women don't know that this is the most damaging sentence to men's self-esteem, it's a heavy blow. After being beaten, men may even retaliate recklessly to maintain their self-esteem, proving that they are a true man.
Even after the end of the fight, this injured man will still exhibit a domineering and egoistic tendency towards male chauvinism in his future life.
Break up now
Breaking up is a phrase that women often say, and many women do not really want to break up when they say these words. They just casually say it without thinking.
At first, men may not take this statement as untrue, but the threat it poses means that anyone can hear it, which unconsciously breeds anxiety, especially for men who lack a sense of security in their relationship. Every time they hear it, their hearts will suffer.
This sentence is similar to chronic toxicity, and its harm ranges from weak to strong, which will completely erupt in a fierce argument in the future.
Some words, if spoken too much, can generate strong psychological suggestive power. It's better to say less, otherwise, in the end, lifting a stone will hit one's own foot.
We are really not suitable
Those women who are dedicated to transforming men love to say this sentence the most. The effect of this sentence is to kill with a soft knife, without seeing blood, but it is uncomfortable and very tormenting, especially in the second half of a relationship.
Men will think that this is the result of careful consideration by women. If they do not actively change themselves, they are likely to lose the woman in front of them, but changing themselves is not an easy task.
Many women try to fit in with each other just as a change for one side, leaving themselves unchanged and allowing men to change. If you love me, you will change for me, otherwise you will not love me. This is really torture!
I really regret marrying you
This sentence makes a man sound extremely uncomfortable and frustrated. Although there is no explicit request from the woman to break up, it also exudes a sense of muddling through, as if declaring the existence of their relationship in name only. The implication is that if it weren't for the child or any other helplessness, I would have long said goodbye to you.
The woman said this sentence, indicating that she has despair about their marriage. No matter how hard the man tries, it is useless. The reason why she stays in the marriage is not for the man in front of her, but out of various helplessness. This is a dull punch, hitting the body and causing pain in the heart.
I don't love you
This is the most straightforward injury, bloody. The meaning is that a man is busy for half a day, and all his efforts are in vain, except for not putting on a green hat for the man.
This is the most complete negation of men. It hurts to the bone, it is a bone piercing pain, and it greatly damages the vitality. If you still love the other person, don't play with this sentence.
After hearing this sentence, the man must be in a hurry, with blood surging up and easily losing it.
Why are you so useless? You make so much money every month
Women like to keep a man's purse in check for the purpose of tying his legs.
There is a common phenomenon that when a man hands over his salary to a woman, she can't help but complain, "Why are you earning so much? XX has been promoted again, why are you so useless
This sentence can easily undermine a man's confidence and may also encourage him to take a wrong path.
Who sent this message? Please explain it to me clearly
For some women who are born without a sense of security, she always likes to suspect and doubt the people around her. Even if it is a man who truly loves her, she cannot completely trust her.
When a man makes a phone call, she needs to inquire about the other person's identity. When a man receives a text message, she also needs to delve deeper. Men dislike women's constant exploration of their privacy and the feeling of not being trusted the most.
Me and your mother, who do you love more and who do you listen to
The mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship is a problem that every new daughter-in-law may encounter. Smart women make progress by retreating and gradually learn to regulate their emotions.
Stupid women always act coquettishly in front of men, asking for an answer: your mother and I, who do you listen to?
For a man, one is giving birth to his mother who loves him, and the other is his beloved girl. Such multiple-choice questions are nothing more than making him a "sandwich cookie" in a dilemma. No matter what answer he gives, it is always a wrong answer.
Why did you come back so late again? What did you do
Women prevent men from cheating by always setting a time for them to return home or being familiar with their itinerary.
When a man comes back a little late, she shakes her face or loses her temper, complaining and questioning him repeatedly: What did you go to, who were you with, and why did you come back so late?
In the end, women love this man too much, so much that they are afraid of losing and so little.
I'm not interested tonight. Don't touch me again, it's really annoying
Husband and wife life is an inseparable part of the elements of marriage. When men have physiological needs in high spirits, women may find various reasons to refuse because they are tired and in a bad mood.
But don't say: I'm not interested, can you stop touching me? You're too annoying... This actually hurts a man's self-esteem, and the subtext is: I'm really not interested in those two of you.
When you want to refuse to live a married life, why not explain your fatigue to him and give him a hug and kiss appropriately.
You don't have to worry about my affairs. Who do you think you are
When a man truly loves you, he always suspects that you can't take care of yourself well, and he will become very verbose and nagging.
When a woman is angry, she doesn't want to take the initiative to communicate, nor does she want a man to care about her again. She says to him, 'My affairs don't need your attention, who do you think you are?'.
This sentence will completely break his heart, he may think that you and he are ultimately people from two worlds
Your father and mother treat me... look at our father and mother
Newly married couples may feel a bit uncomfortable with the honorific titles of their parents, and even some women never recognize their mother-in-law and father-in-law,
When it comes to men, they always say 'what's wrong with your father and mother?' When it comes to their own parents, their lips are sweet and honey comes out, and they respectfully call us' father and mother '
Men are very disgusted that their wives do not accept their parents and do not treat them well.
Can you have today without me
With the development of society, there are more and more powerful women, but the respect between people is decreasing.
In marriage, high-income women always have a domineering attitude when arguing, disdaining men for their incompetence, and even mocking men: Without me, you could still be today?
