Post Date December, 03 2023
What is the most sensitive animal in the world? The answer is unique: women. A woman is a lovely and pitiful emotional life on the earth. No matter what her intelligence quotient, education background or birth background, they all yearn for beautiful love and happy marriage. Don't think that women are material in today's society. If there is a faithful feeling in front of them, they will still be committed to the pursuit of the best happiness. However, happiness in marriage is not simple. Women should not only pursue but also grasp and maintain it.
It's good to be a stupid woman
As the saying goes, "Fools have silly blessings". This kind of foolishness is to treat feelings seriously, do not calculate which is more or less in love, do not deliberately have, but inadvertently get. In life, why are those seemingly stupid women always happier and happier than smart women? In fact, they are more likely to play dumb -- use the skills of love to manage their feelings, know how to show weakness at the right time, and do not have to be aggressive in everything; Grasp the opportunity of attack and retreat; You don't have to be clear-minded all the time. If you suffer from myopia and farsightedness occasionally, you will survive better.
Don't hold yourself too high
Many women feel that they are highly educated and highly paid, and they can get everything on the table. They are excellent and smart, and can't mix any sand in their eyes. Unfortunately, many of them are still single and no one loves them. On the contrary, those little women who sometimes seem stupid can get more care and care, and are more likely to get a good marriage. Those women who know how to play silly are more likely to be appreciated by men and have a happy ending.
Learn to concede
Smart women, who divide water and dust, will not make everything clear, even if you are born with a pair of golden eyes, and things are clear, it will hurt not only eyes, but also marriage in the end. Zhang Bozhi, who won the joy of her husband's family and finally achieved positive results, told everyone in a tone of "coming over" that we should not care too much, but learn to admit defeat.
Relaxation should be moderate, not extreme
Of course, being silly is not a principled concession. Some celebrities modestly admit defeat when they pretend to be silly. They not only tell women how to concede in front of men, but also take this low attitude as a way to make progress by retreating. To be a wise and intelligent woman, know how to advance and retreat at the right time, grasp the timing and timing, and know when to be silly. When you meet yourself with reason, give him a proper blow and let him know that he is not a stupid, cowardly little woman. When he is wronged, he will feel deeply guilty for hurting you.
Shrewdness is not a matter of instruction
Men are most afraid of girls who hold themselves to be clever and tell others what to do. It is still the kind of girls who know how to move forward and backward. They are so cute that they are willing to go through fire and water for her. Between smart and capable women and "silly" women, men will certainly choose the latter. Women's tolerance will have a sense of security for men. Most men will have compassion for small and weak women. If you act extremely tall, it will cause depression for men.
Watch and control the situation
Love is an invisible war. Sometimes women have to be very strong, but sometimes women have to strategically let men take the upper hand and satisfy their dignity. At ordinary times, women can play dumb and pretend to give in. In fact, it is only to moderately meet the dignity of men, cater to their desire for protection, and finally overcome the hardness with softness, and turn the tempering into the softness around the fingers. Make arrows with gentleness to block men's sharp spears.
From now on, be a woman who can observe what she says and what she looks like, and carefully find out when she is in good mood, when she is in bad mood, when she needs you to coax her, when she should be silly, and when she should be stronger. As a woman, if you want to be happy, you must be able to control the situation.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
