Post Date December, 03 2023
What if my wife cheats? This matter is undoubtedly a bombshell for any man, and although each man's reaction may be different, the psychological impact of his wife's infidelity on men also exists. As a man, the biggest fear is being hooded, and what's worse is an unavoidable issue in marriage for thousands of years.
For the infidelity of men in marriage, the attitude of the vast majority of women is that the prodigal son returns without exchanging money; But for women, it's often like being kicked out by a man as soon as they cheat. Social opinion is far more harsh for women than for men. We admit that wearing a green hat can harm men's face and self-esteem, but does it have to be rejected by all votes for a woman who cheats?
Four suggestions for men, please weigh them:
Firstly, is there a balance within oneself
In individual cases of marital counseling, there is generally a pattern. If there are no "principled issues" between both parties, they often blend in and fix them well. And once there are "principled issues", this marriage will face a severe test. The issue of infidelity and infidelity is clearly a matter of principle. Because things like a wife's infidelity often lead to a sense of imbalance such as great grievance and resentment in the husband's heart. If you want to continue your marriage, you must be able to balance the pain and imbalance in your heart. If there is no balance, then in the future, when living and facing each other, the relationship between the two parties will be in an imbalanced state, which is difficult to develop for a long time.
Secondly, reflect on the problems in marriage
A person in marriage often seeks extramarital support because of problems in their own marital life. So, when encountering a wife cheating, the husband should be able to calm down and think about whether he has long neglected his wife's feelings in marriage, or simply love her according to his own feelings, but what he gives is not what the wife wants. Thinking about it this way may reduce some anger and resentment towards the cheating wife. At the same time, it will also make the wife feel that her husband can have some understanding of her, which is helpful in repairing the relationship between the two people.
Once again, re-examine your love
Do you still love your wife and want to continue with her? If the answer is yes, the husband needs to think about the love he has given her. Is it really the love she needs? If not, you also need to calm down and seriously think about whether you two are really suitable for being together.
Finally, understand the wife's attitude
If a husband wants to continue his marriage, he must know his attitude towards his current marriage after his wife's infidelity was discovered? Perhaps the two of them need to have a thorough and thorough conversation, to make their wife understand their position and also clarify their wife's clear attitude towards the future of the marriage. Is her heart still in this marriage? Or at least willing to return to this marriage? This is very important. Otherwise, the husband's forgiveness is just a chance to get hurt again.
Conclusion
A man who is willing to forgive his wife for cheating must be deeply in love with this woman. But only one person's love is not enough to sustain a marriage, so love can sometimes bring harm. Men should carefully consider and weigh the above four points before making their own decisions for your marriage.
